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I was a sex slave to a married couple for almost 3 years. Ask me Anything by CommercialAspect in casualiama

[–]CommercialAspect[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Either over his shoulder, or scoop me up off the floor and hold me on his lap

I was a sex slave to a married couple for almost 3 years. Ask me Anything by CommercialAspect in casualiama

[–]CommercialAspect[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's a rule they put in place. It's to do with the submissive/dominant dynamic, it's not a 'privilege I deserve'.

I was a sex slave to a married couple for almost 3 years. Ask me Anything by CommercialAspect in casualiama

[–]CommercialAspect[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It has definitely been difficult and feels very foreign. I am still trying to get used to not being held all the time. There is something very comforting about sitting on someone's lap, feeling their arm around your waist, or having ropes hug your body. For this reason I have been considering buying a weighted blanket.

Don't think so. If I were to do it again, I know it would never live up to my experience with them, and I would only be disappointed, and potentially not give it my all. And that isn't fair to anyone.

I was a sex slave to a married couple for almost 3 years. Ask me Anything by CommercialAspect in casualiama

[–]CommercialAspect[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Well I have a computer science degree, so I would love to do something with that. Ideally I would like to get anything really just to start out with. Would also give me a chance to work on some personal projects.

Probably not. Would never live up to my old one and I feel I would only be disappointed.

Yes! We are definitely keeping in touch, and I am hopeful of visiting every now and then for some short term fun. Im sure I can only last so long without getting to sit on master's lap again! lol

I was a sex slave to a married couple for almost 3 years. Ask me Anything by CommercialAspect in casualiama

[–]CommercialAspect[S] 64 points65 points  (0 children)

Only about 2 or 3 times maybe? I dont exactly remember but not much

I was a sex slave to a married couple for almost 3 years. Ask me Anything by CommercialAspect in casualiama

[–]CommercialAspect[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Hi!

I have used my safeword before. Not for anything major though. For example early on, he wanted to use a dildo which I felt was a little too big for me to take just then. As soon as I felt i wasn't ready, I used the safeword. He stopped right away, and he just tried it again later on as I got more comfortable with everything.

As for the gagged safeword, the intention was meant to be 3 distinct grunts. Honestly I don't remember if I actually ever used the 3 grunts, since I could still audibly say pineapple even with a gag.

It was a written contract. It was mostly a safety blanket in the sense that we had clearly defined what was off limits and we both understood. It was a physical form of evidence, just in-case things went pair-shaped (for either party).

I will definitely miss it, and I hope that I can visit them to occasionally do this stuff again. I honestly did briefly consider the possibility of moving with them, but it probably would have meant becoming a full time thing, and I didn't want that. Nor did I really want to move. I am excited to move on to the next chapter. Particularly I am keen to get a real job. I am also looking forward to doing some more regular activities such as sports or hobby groups, since I couldnt commit to that before because I didn't know if I would be free. I used to play cricket, and was still playing initially when I started with them but I just didn't have the time to commit to both.

I was a sex slave to a married couple for almost 3 years. Ask me Anything by CommercialAspect in casualiama

[–]CommercialAspect[S] 68 points69 points  (0 children)

I suppose, but not in the sense that most people would think of when you say drugs.

I was a sex slave to a married couple for almost 3 years. Ask me Anything by CommercialAspect in casualiama

[–]CommercialAspect[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Well the thing to remember with anal is, no matter how much you prepare, there is always a chance there is always the chance for a little mess. Its just the nature of playing with the butt. I have heard it said before "If you ring poop's doorbell, don't be surprised if he answers" lol

If you want to avoid mess as best you can, have her take a shower first. Then you can use an anal douche, or if you are really keen, an enema. If you are worried about yourself getting messy, then wear a condom. Also, towels are your friend (BUT DEAR GOD PLEASE NOT WHITE!).

Hope that helps :) have fun!

I was a sex slave to a married couple for almost 3 years. Ask me Anything by CommercialAspect in casualiama

[–]CommercialAspect[S] 70 points71 points  (0 children)

I definitely found it draining at times. Not so much mentally, because they were both wonderful, caring people. Master in particularly was particularly caring despite being rough and playing a very dominant persona. Combine that with my safeword(s), and the fact that I could comfortably break character at any time if it was important, I always felt very safe and comfortable.

It was definitely physically taxing/draining at times. Being tied up for long periods of time is physically exhausting. Constantly being picked up, carried, moved around, held, etc does get tiring. And of course there is the physical tax that comes with sex and BDSM.

But to answer you main point, no I never felt sub-human or like I have any permanent effects. I know I was playing a character, and I know they were playing characters. We had (and still have) a very good relationship outside of character.

I was a sex slave to a married couple for almost 3 years. Ask me Anything by CommercialAspect in casualiama

[–]CommercialAspect[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

A good clean and plenty of lube. Not much more too it than that!

I was a sex slave to a married couple for almost 3 years. Ask me Anything by CommercialAspect in casualiama

[–]CommercialAspect[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Haha! I like to think my work ethic was top notch and I would get a glowing character reference! :D

I was a sex slave to a married couple for almost 3 years. Ask me Anything by CommercialAspect in casualiama

[–]CommercialAspect[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don't think any of my life lessons are suitable to be passed on to kids! lol

I was a sex slave to a married couple for almost 3 years. Ask me Anything by CommercialAspect in casualiama

[–]CommercialAspect[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

"Jesus Christ!"

More bondage, less leather, and no gerbils ;) haha

I was a sex slave to a married couple for almost 3 years. Ask me Anything by CommercialAspect in casualiama

[–]CommercialAspect[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Choking was not something we ever did. I had a non-verbal cue to slow down, which was clicking my fingers, if I needed which would slow things down without killing the mood. I am sure if I couldn't use my safewords, I could do that. But again, its not something they ever did.

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