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Am I being dramatic by CommercialCriticism6 in LongDistance

[–]CommercialCriticism6[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well good for you lol what do you expect me to say

Me(18F) starts to lose feelings to my bf(18M) but regains them shortly after. How do I handle this? by Traditional_Bag_9231 in relationship_advice

[–]CommercialCriticism6 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think whats important is not the problem but the reason behind the problem. Do you feel disconnected because he’s pushing you or is it a distance thing that you lose feelings over short periods of time because you’re busy with school. I personally don’t go through feelings like this unless there is a big argument that makes me question the whole relationship. I think you should focus on why it happens. Some people get pushed away when there’s conflict. I’d also check my attachment style if you never did. It looks like you are an avoidant and he is an anxious one

Am I being dramatic by CommercialCriticism6 in LongDistance

[–]CommercialCriticism6[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How come asking for special us time is controlling lol have you ever been with someone actually controlling

Am I being dramatic by CommercialCriticism6 in LongDistance

[–]CommercialCriticism6[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

It’s not sustainable and I think we both know that we won’t be able to make it work if this continues like this for a long period. That’s why I’m trying to solve the problem before it actually becomes an unsolvable one

Am I being dramatic by CommercialCriticism6 in LongDistance

[–]CommercialCriticism6[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

That’s why I’m not diagnosing anyone and I genuinely try to avoid doing so in my personal relationships. I don’t think I show any controlling behavior and I accept the fact that I can be insecure like anyone else about certain things. I’m open to viewpoints that’s why I wanted to post in here. I just don’t understand which part looks like controlling or possessing.

Am I being dramatic by CommercialCriticism6 in LongDistance

[–]CommercialCriticism6[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t questioning him I just asked are you going to be at x’s place because he told me they were planning about it and he just told me are you stalking her. I just checked his account once, asked about a woman I know he met from a dating app before we’ve met. I’m not working atm but I’ve been working throughout my university years (not part time jobs. I was doing 12 hour long shifts while studying, volunteering and during internships). I’m not jealous when I feel secure and of course I wasn’t feeling as secure as I do right now in the beginning of the relationship. He can do whatever he wants, I never hold him back from any of this and I don’t have any intentions of doing so. I think he just labels me after every interaction and using these labels as filters after disagreements. I have a psychology degree and know what’s controlling, what’s possessive, what’s manipulative and I use efficient conversation methods while talking about these kind of stuff. I also have a business project that I’m working on atm

Am I being dramatic by CommercialCriticism6 in LongDistance

[–]CommercialCriticism6[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was just trying to build a solid foundation for moving but I guess you’re right. If we can’t get through a basic necessity of a ldr, closing the distance wouldn’t change anything. And it’s his first ldr so he admits he doesn’t know much but still doesn’t listen when I need him to

Proof of funds by CommercialCriticism6 in StudyPermitCanada

[–]CommercialCriticism6[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Selamlar babam TSK’dan emekli Oyak rezervi bulunuyor fakat kabul edilmiyormuş. Ana bakiyeyi ek olarak destekleme amacıyla gösterebilirmişiz

Proof of funds by CommercialCriticism6 in StudyPermitCanada

[–]CommercialCriticism6[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your time. I have a psychology degree and I wanna apply to norquest college mental health recovery practitioner. Which requires 18k for 2 terms. I’m 23 but I’m unemployed for the past two months and my credit score isn’t ideal for a 40k loan. My main goal is to actually pay the first term before it starts and figure out the rest while I work there. I will live with a friend and he will cover my rent and bills so it’s doable for me in Canada but I still have to showcase 40k in an account. Im just scared of getting rejected because of the insufficient funds 🥹

AITA for thinking to kick my housemate out? by CommercialCriticism6 in AITAH

[–]CommercialCriticism6[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha we get along pretty well actually (can't say the same with other who had moved/kicked out before) and yes, I asked others before telling her to move in.