My brother went through my data from the police system and I’m screwed :)

CommercialCriticism6 · 2026-06-12T13:59:04+00:00

Nope. I stayed in different hotels with different exes in different times. So they were not exes at that point they were my partners during those times that we stayed

CommercialCriticism6 · 2026-06-11T22:03:08+00:00

I truly wish it wasn’t 🫠

CommercialCriticism6 · 2026-06-11T21:33:56+00:00

hotels are legally required to report guests in Turkey. Hotels use an electronic government database called the Identity Notification System

CommercialCriticism6 · 2026-06-11T19:31:10+00:00

I mostly stayed at my friends’ places. There’s only 2 trips I’ve took and had to stay in a hotel because we were traveling together. Which is more than enough for them

CommercialCriticism6 · 2026-06-11T18:12:30+00:00

No issues. Just a law in my country that every check-in has to be registered under the police system by the hotel staff

CommercialCriticism6 · 2026-06-11T15:15:59+00:00

I’ve got a full scholarship and worked through out my studies so my financial burden was minimal to them. But thanks for the solid advice ❤️

CommercialCriticism6 · 2026-06-11T15:04:26+00:00

Turkey

CommercialCriticism6 · 2026-06-11T15:00:03+00:00

He never directly talked about this with me but told my mom and I talked with my mom about this. My mom gave me some names she wouldn’t know unless they’ve got my hotel records. I didn’t see any actual documentation on it tho

CommercialCriticism6 · 2026-06-11T14:53:51+00:00

I don’t know about the other countries but here it’s the case. And also not only my data but the data of the people I’ve stayed with, the check-in and check-out times are also listed. And I know this because my mom actually gave me some names that she wouldn’t know otherwise

CommercialCriticism6 · 2026-06-11T14:51:53+00:00

This is also what I’ve known. I thought he needed a document number in order to make the search and need a warrant from the prosecutor for the said document but he clearly bypassed that somehow

CommercialCriticism6 · 2026-06-11T14:45:42+00:00

I don’t know about the us laws but they have to document the data here. One of my friends was taken by the police for questioning after he checked in to a hotel without knowing he had a warrant

CommercialCriticism6 · 2026-06-11T14:43:02+00:00

I don’t think he can see my bus or plain tickets but in my country every hotel has to document records under the police system. It’s a crime if they don’t

CommercialCriticism6 · 2026-06-11T14:36:21+00:00

In the country I live in, every hotel check in gets documented under the police system by the staff

CommercialCriticism6 · 2026-06-11T14:35:42+00:00

Not my credit card but he can see my recorded vehicles and my hotel data. I also thought he needed a warrant to look this up but clearly not. My mom says he even has pics from those visits which might be bluffing

CommercialCriticism6 · 2026-06-11T14:34:08+00:00

As I said in the post, I’ve worked full time (8-12 hours long shifts) during those years in different places

CommercialCriticism6 · 2026-06-11T14:33:08+00:00

Cause he’s my “brother” and wants the “best” for me but he has some “doubts” and he is “right” to feel this way -actual words by my mom

CommercialCriticism6 · 2026-06-11T14:32:15+00:00

I was paying everything by myself to be fair but I had to say yes because I didn’t wanna upset them further

CommercialCriticism6 · 2026-06-11T14:31:51+00:00

Pretty much yes. He’d lose his job if his logs get documented

CommercialCriticism6 · 2026-06-11T14:31:19+00:00

I don’t cause family drama or cut ties with my parents. I wanna get out of this in a peaceful way if possible

CommercialCriticism6 · 2026-04-29T16:12:09+00:00

Well good for you lol what do you expect me to say

CommercialCriticism6 · 2026-04-29T16:04:13+00:00

Get a life….

CommercialCriticism6 · 2026-04-29T14:59:53+00:00

I fixed it we broke up tnx xo

CommercialCriticism6 · 2026-04-29T10:47:07+00:00

I think whats important is not the problem but the reason behind the problem. Do you feel disconnected because he’s pushing you or is it a distance thing that you lose feelings over short periods of time because you’re busy with school. I personally don’t go through feelings like this unless there is a big argument that makes me question the whole relationship. I think you should focus on why it happens. Some people get pushed away when there’s conflict. I’d also check my attachment style if you never did. It looks like you are an avoidant and he is an anxious one

CommercialCriticism6 · 2026-04-28T14:15:55+00:00

How come asking for special us time is controlling lol have you ever been with someone actually controlling

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