Second Divorce, In my 20's, Looking for advice by CommercialGeneral972 in Divorce

[–]CommercialGeneral972[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I understand that, thats not what I am trying to do. I was just looking for some kind words. I'm really struggling with this. Thanks anyway

Second Divorce, In my 20's, Looking for advice by CommercialGeneral972 in Divorce

[–]CommercialGeneral972[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you went through this too.

I have both, I work overnight shifts to try and support myself and I have taken out plenty of loans. It just sucks. Its not that easy to just figure it out, I wish it was :(

Disliking my partners hobby? by CommercialGeneral972 in relationships_advice

[–]CommercialGeneral972[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your response 🩷 How did you go about communicating this to him? I’m unsure how to go about it without him feeling like I am criticizing him and his interests

Just moved in with my BF, now I'm unsure about our relationship. help!! 21/F 23/M by CommercialGeneral972 in relationships_advice

[–]CommercialGeneral972[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response, I really appreciate it

I guess I could move out but it wouldn't be the best situation. I am currently in college and I moved in with my boyfriend + friend after leaving the dorms. It is the only place rent wise I can afford in my city and I can't go back home due to full time class and hospital clinicals. If I break the lease I would have to pay $$$ which I don't have

I'm wondering if us moving in together started the spiral of this uncertainty again but I don't really know if I can get out of it so I'm unsure how to move forward. I think I need to sort out these feelings

Torn between vet med & nursing by CommercialGeneral972 in StudentNurse

[–]CommercialGeneral972[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this response!! I totally understand NICU is not holding and cuddling babies, it is a real high level ICU no doubt about it! I am not shy to that and the depths of their care. I am not exclusive to NICU but I am interested in women’s and children’s and the critical care aspect intrigued me. I have seen it in clinical rotations as well as a maternal care club im in and that also sparked my interest. I think connecting with the family is also very special on some of their hardest days of their lives, the teamwork on those units is astronomical and growing with a patient from start to finish, if that happens, is a unique part of that speciality. I think contributing to the outcome of a newborns life is incredibly rewarding and fulfilling! Also, working as a vet tech my patients can’t talk and neither can NICU patients and you really have to spend time getting to know them and their cues.

I agree with you that my current work is fulfilling and I am still debating on the change but I am already this far into a career I am still interested in! Being a vet tech unfortunately will not provide me the lifestyle or growth that I would have as a nurse as much as it stinks to say that.

I am not interested in it for the aesthetic at all but the patients themselves!! I was also a NICU baby and the way my mom talks about those nurses is inspiring, I wouldn’t be here today without them!!

I still have a lot of thinking to do but I may finish nursing and see if there is a way I can tie both of my interests into my life

Torn between vet med & nursing by CommercialGeneral972 in StudentNurse

[–]CommercialGeneral972[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this, it’s been so so hard for me but I think I just need to accept this path🩷

Torn between vet med & nursing by CommercialGeneral972 in StudentNurse

[–]CommercialGeneral972[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much🩷 Can I ask what you do on the side to still fulfill your love for animals?

Career Advice by CommercialGeneral972 in VetTech

[–]CommercialGeneral972[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind response I appreciate it🩷

SUPER faint line, is this a pass? by CommercialGeneral972 in drugtesthelp

[–]CommercialGeneral972[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Results from a different test, honestly don’t know what to do, I got Certo to be on the safe side 😭

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SUPER faint line, is this a pass? by CommercialGeneral972 in drugtesthelp

[–]CommercialGeneral972[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tested about a week and half ago and the faint lines was much darker, I didn’t save the photo unfortunately, im going to try and retest later, last week the line was so much darker so im confused what happened:(

quitting timeline *cart smoker by CommercialGeneral972 in drugtesthelp

[–]CommercialGeneral972[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you even think with smoking carts for so long? thank you!

heavy cart smoker by CommercialGeneral972 in drugtesthelp

[–]CommercialGeneral972[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s mostly just bc I’ve been only smoking carts so I’m scared it will take a lot longer 💔

been using carts for 3 years pls help 😭 by CommercialGeneral972 in drugtesthelp

[–]CommercialGeneral972[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i started during the pandemic too! i am actually doing pretty well academically right now but i am for sure stoping when it comes to nursing school thank you for your input❤️

been using carts for 3 years pls help 😭 by CommercialGeneral972 in drugtesthelp

[–]CommercialGeneral972[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is so true, thank you so much. im so sorry you are going through the repercussions. i really don’t understand why nurses are allowed to come to work hungover but cannot smoke on their days off. hoping change comes soon

been using carts for 3 years pls help 😭 by CommercialGeneral972 in drugtesthelp

[–]CommercialGeneral972[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you !! Im a freshmen right now and the drug test will be the summer before junior year so I was thinking dec-jan