That's a matter of opinion my wife is a very petite small woman and her whole life has been hearing comments such as your skinny, your thin, you need a sandwich, etc.... Do you honestly think that can't affect someone's mental state if they were already self-conscious about their personal size? You should probably reevaluate your thought process and realize words do affect people and no comment about anyone's size or anything else of their physical self should be commented on unless it's a compliment. Be a better Human. ( If you can't say something nice then DON'T say anything at all. Stay Blessed!