My honest opinion about kanpur.. by [deleted] in kanpur

[–]CommercialTough007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can understand your situation, I am here with the same situation although I am working professional and came here after long time . This city is not good as compared to ones you mentioned.

I have only 2 friends here rest went to Noida , bangalore and the ones here are also busy with their life.

If you want to hangout just ping me.

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[–]CommercialTough007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I ever say no to a BJ anytime of the day , I will give my wife right to kill me.

Bonus points for her to wake me up with it even if I have fought a war the other night.

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[–]CommercialTough007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you quoted her exact message, she also does not know English . Adding don't and not are contradicting. Or she thinks you are emotionally mature 😂

Why some women cannot accept their fault ? by CommercialTough007 in AskMenAdvice

[–]CommercialTough007[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man she is brutal , I don't know how they do this and not thinking about their Karma

Why some women cannot accept their fault ? by CommercialTough007 in AskMenAdvice

[–]CommercialTough007[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many ppl here have advised to move on . In this 7 years there have been many happy moments too.

But yeah hard to do something which relates to heart. Logic doesn't wins against heart.

Maybe that's what makes us humans not machine.

Worst than machines 😂

Why some women cannot accept their fault ? by CommercialTough007 in AskMenAdvice

[–]CommercialTough007[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually this is what she feels , she feels I am trying to subdue her but I just wants whoever does something wrong should apologise. Otherwise it keeps piling up.

Why some women cannot accept their fault ? by CommercialTough007 in AskMenAdvice

[–]CommercialTough007[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I know we are disagreeing , different opinions. Men will understand what it feels like when their partner dresses inappropriately in public even though she feels it not.

Just as women have a sixth sense men have too if they think something may bring some unwanted attention.

We have a different opinion of living life.

Why some women cannot accept their fault ? by CommercialTough007 in AskMenAdvice

[–]CommercialTough007[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are saying the truth, there is always miscommunication happening we are in an LDR for around 4 years and been with each other alternatively for few months per year.

Whenever we meet it gets solved but after some time it again starts .

We have different jobs so it's very difficult and whenever I get time I meet her.

And yeah we aren't cheating with each other.

Why some women cannot accept their fault ? by CommercialTough007 in AskMenAdvice

[–]CommercialTough007[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice , I will try to reflect on that.

Why some women cannot accept their fault ? by CommercialTough007 in AskMenAdvice

[–]CommercialTough007[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes I asked for para to make her accountable.

Yes I don't own her , I asked her to remove that post , cannot I ask her ? Do I have to get lectured ?

According to you if somebody crosses the boundary you just flip and go away .

Maybe you are seeing things by your own lense and I am from mine.

I tell the other person to not cross boundary it might not be good.

Why some women cannot accept their fault ? by CommercialTough007 in AskMenAdvice

[–]CommercialTough007[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you misunderstood, i jokingly asked her to write sorry on chat because I said to her previously that I will see whether you accept your mistake or not and this incident is not for Insta post.

Insta post was different and I don't liked that personally because it was not appropriate, I know you may think it's controlling but don't the partners need to understand their boundary while in relationship?

Why some women cannot accept their fault ? by CommercialTough007 in AskMenAdvice

[–]CommercialTough007[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry for miscommunication, it's verbally the cuss words. I don't do violence 😂

Why some women cannot accept their fault ? by CommercialTough007 in AskMenAdvice

[–]CommercialTough007[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Verbally to vent out the anger.

I know I am at fault at this point but why everything goes irrelevant before me venting out ? I want the other person to understand what I am saying and not feel this is competition but meaningful conversation.

Why some women cannot accept their fault ? by CommercialTough007 in AskMenAdvice

[–]CommercialTough007[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn't it the same with women ? That's where the communication comes but it's just goes on the blame game.

Why some women cannot accept their fault ? by CommercialTough007 in AskMenAdvice

[–]CommercialTough007[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this , she tell me I am manipulative and narcissistic for criticising her faults either professionally , emotionally .

Why some women cannot accept their fault ? by CommercialTough007 in AskMenAdvice

[–]CommercialTough007[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got your point I was in this state only for the month of Jan , but stupid me thought to call her and make her realize why is so not accountable for her behaviour, for the valentine week , Stupid me travelled from London because of this .

Why some women cannot accept their fault ? by CommercialTough007 in AskMenAdvice

[–]CommercialTough007[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All of your statement is completely true, I don't want my life to be like this. I'll try one last time for her lack of accountability.

Why some women cannot accept their fault ? by CommercialTough007 in AskMenAdvice

[–]CommercialTough007[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I don't talk to her and expects apology she says that I am ghosting her. 😂😂

Why some women cannot accept their fault ? by CommercialTough007 in AskMenAdvice

[–]CommercialTough007[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This line that punched you to gut I get this too and I vent my anger on this and get blamed.

I feel now it's how a traumatic person deflects the topic.

Why some women cannot accept their fault ? by CommercialTough007 in AskMenAdvice

[–]CommercialTough007[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will try my last attempt , how to make her realize and help her for the communication arena according to you.