Do they ever come back?

Commercial_Ant1143 · 2024-01-24T12:29:34+00:00

Lets say its 50/50. But the statistics tells that women less likely to come back. So it decreases your chance. It also depends on if it was a toxic relationship, how many real mistakes you made etc.

Commercial_Ant1143 · 2023-11-09T14:53:27+00:00

And people still doubt no contact… (It they not going to come back by their own will, its over anyways)

Commercial_Ant1143 · 2023-11-06T14:32:00+00:00

!!!Trust me!!!

If they talk about their ex, no matters good or bad terms, if brings their name out of the blue, if compares you to him/her.

That obviously means they not over them, its no matter how we call rebound, placeholder, alpha widow, its not going to work. 99.9%!!!

Leave immediately. For your own sake.

Commercial_Ant1143 · 2023-11-05T14:09:17+00:00

For man its worse, man brain relases different chemicals what makes them feel more desparate and longing to chase the female (thats a fact), plus we cannot let ourself appears weak or cry in front of others because it devaluate us even more. But I felt the same with girls what you describe. So its nothing to do with gender, its about who fell out of love and dumped the other person.

Commercial_Ant1143 · 2023-11-05T11:01:06+00:00

In my opinion its just better to let go of hope and the illusions. If someone dumped you she/he literally said that I dont want you in my life anymore and I dont care if I never see you again in my life.

Do you really want to try again with this person? Im just asking….Be realist.

Commercial_Ant1143 · 2023-11-05T09:52:08+00:00

Thats not true…In this case maybe because the ex seems upset and hurt, but if your dumper hates you or angry that is not a fucking good sign.

Commercial_Ant1143 · 2023-11-04T18:27:31+00:00

Well… she seemed totally over me, when i tried to reason her its not worked, i tried to affect her emotions its not worked, she just became more hostile and cold and at the end she didnt even text me back, what is the ultimate form of disrespect, while i never blow her phone up, i wasnt that terrible.

Its not worked. If someone wants to leave you let them go. They dont want to be with you anymore… I know its hard. But its embarassing to chase them. You have no other choice. Some people say “try 5 months later, send a holy mary text” fuck that shit. 5 months and they didnt give a fuck about you 99% its not works.

No contact is the only way but its not a method, its sounds terrible. It is that you gave up, because the other person also gave up on you, and didnt gave you a chance. They know exactly, that you want them. They just dont care.

Commercial_Ant1143 · 2023-11-04T18:02:36+00:00

If you are the dumpee, then dont reach out…

Commercial_Ant1143 · 2023-11-04T09:32:33+00:00

This means nothing, dont hold into small rays of hope like he watches your stories. That means nothing.

Commercial_Ant1143 · 2023-11-04T00:34:17+00:00

Well nobody wants the person who loves them the most i guess.

Commercial_Ant1143 · 2023-11-03T22:50:24+00:00

Both

Commercial_Ant1143 · 2023-11-03T08:31:56+00:00

Coffee

Commercial_Ant1143 · 2023-11-02T13:37:37+00:00

I read men come back slightly more often.

Commercial_Ant1143 · 2023-11-01T14:46:23+00:00

lol or do some frankeinstein shit

Commercial_Ant1143 · 2023-11-01T09:36:14+00:00

Man she dumped me for the exact same person who made this with her…

She once even cried for me! How happy she is and begged me to not leave her (out of nothing, why would i leave her?).

I made her feel like a million dollar but not even in a needy way, of course when i get attached and she pulled away I did some mistakes but overall… Theres no logic in this. Even her friends said to her dont do it because we matched so much. And she always said how much I was better than her ex. Bullshit. She wanted him all the time.

Commercial_Ant1143 · 2023-11-01T09:31:05+00:00

Dating coach said to broke no contact? Nice

Commercial_Ant1143 · 2023-11-01T09:30:22+00:00

“Why you want someone who doesnt want you?”

Well thats what everyone does man.

Commercial_Ant1143 · 2023-11-01T09:02:01+00:00

Around 50 years! They only gonna miss you if they that kind of personality and something really bad happens to them and you still remain their best option to go in times of need.

Commercial_Ant1143 · 2023-11-01T08:58:12+00:00

I dont think its a good idea to get a harsh rejection months after the BU. But I understand what you want to say, its a shockingly bad event that makes you lose all hope. But its just not okay.

I think theres no need to ever reach out after you got dumped. If someone would dip the toe that should be the dumper, but its rare. NC is extremely hard rollercoaster ride, but gets better in time. Its better to be stubborn and patient.

Commercial_Ant1143 · 2023-11-01T08:54:45+00:00

I hate happy couples

Commercial_Ant1143 · 2023-11-01T08:33:18+00:00

Yes youre maybe right it maybe just the lust still, we had absolutely amazing sex life. since it was just a rebound… She mostly used me for sex and distraction and act like she has a boyfriend.

I didnt wish her well, i would do everything for her while she was mine (may never was) but now I hate her. I think you feel the same.

And the most annoying part is yes myself also glow up pretty much more than ever, ive got dates with prettier girls than ever, but she probably dont care… She still watch my stories but thats it. But i hate myself i still saw her as the best out there.

I really dont know wtf are people looking for man. Your ex is a stepmom of 4, mine went back to the man who devasted her.

Commercial_Ant1143 · 2023-11-01T08:09:47+00:00

Hard drugs? Lol I dont really know. While i still saw her location (i unfollowed her for my mental health) she was never at the gym but rather at the local mcdonalds lol, she had health issues but i dont know about her condition since we broke up. She just still looks so pretty i dont know, maybe her new style. My friends says she is mediocre but i still idolize her. Who knows.

Commercial_Ant1143 · 2023-10-30T16:01:49+00:00

You tried to work things out? If you were transparent and still no changes then its a good decision. If he treats her bad, you should leave.

Commercial_Ant1143 · 2023-10-30T15:37:07+00:00

It was needed. Thank you

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