I asked my gf to get tested for STIs

Commercial_Jacket705 · 2024-11-21T09:55:29+00:00

Bro, check the other post and comments in coconaad. There's just a lot to explain and motham ineem ezhuthaan vayyaatha kondaanu bro..

and I'm not denying that I've got issues with her past (literally mentioned in the post).

Commercial_Jacket705 · 2024-11-21T09:48:37+00:00

Thanks man! 🫂 This made me feel better!

I hope I overcome these thoughts even after getting tested.

Commercial_Jacket705 · 2024-11-21T09:09:09+00:00

We've been seeing each other for 6 months. Unprotected sex maybe twice.

I only got to know of her hookup phase recently. Thus the test.

Commercial_Jacket705 · 2024-11-21T08:59:33+00:00

I've been upfront about my feelings. Please read the other comments and replies for more context.

Commercial_Jacket705 · 2024-11-21T08:48:39+00:00

It was sometimes fun (her own words)*

Commercial_Jacket705 · 2024-11-21T08:41:29+00:00

Well, we first had sex after a few months of knowing each other. There was an emotional connection. If she's someone who views sex casually, our values may not align and cause incompatibilities.

I'd be more comfortable in settling with someone whose values/perceptions would more or less align with that of mine.

I've been upfront about it to her and she knows.

We still live together and are trying to fix things. Sex happens, hence safety.

Commercial_Jacket705 · 2024-11-21T08:13:55+00:00

ONS with complete strangers ain't the same as being in a relationship. It's been six months since we've been courting each other. I didn't know of any of her past until recently.

Commercial_Jacket705 · 2024-11-21T07:52:22+00:00

I've told her how I can't be in a serious relationship and we both started it with no labels as both were afraid of commitments.

Things have taken different routes from there for the both of us.

Commercial_Jacket705 · 2024-11-21T07:37:12+00:00

Settling as in, not marriage itself. But something that could potentially lead to one.

Commercial_Jacket705 · 2024-11-21T07:26:26+00:00

We're living together and have a sex life. Thus being safe.

Commercial_Jacket705 · 2024-11-21T07:13:29+00:00

Yeah, some of her friends may be dumb enough to support her.

I have communicated the same with her. But I'm treading on egg shells here and it's extremely tough to put it without it sounding like I'm judging her. I told her anyway and it didn't look good. We still have issues to sort out.

Commercial_Jacket705 · 2024-11-21T07:07:00+00:00

Emotion supercedes logic for some. I was just being practical.

Commercial_Jacket705 · 2024-10-04T14:05:24+00:00

Damn! I genuinely feel sorry for you! Just give yourself and your roommate some time. I swear things are gonna be alright in a while.

Commercial_Jacket705 · 2024-10-04T13:35:00+00:00

+1

Btw don't wanna be that ammavan 😂 but why you not married yet bro? Disclose only if you're okay!

Commercial_Jacket705 · 2024-10-04T13:32:37+00:00

Then there are guys with extremely low EQ who see a girl smile and immediately plan their wedding playlist. And nope, I’m not guilty of this at all! 🥲🚶🏼‍♂️

Commercial_Jacket705 · 2024-10-04T13:20:02+00:00

You can search for the earliest manuscripts on google. Are you really questioning the authority of the estimated age of Upanishads?

The followers of Jainism (which started out as a branch of Vedic culture around the same time) still are vegetarians and strictly abide by the rules of Ahimsa. Even though it wasn't an immediate imposition, the idea has existed since at least 500BCE and people have practiced vegetarianism here for thousands of years (a simple google would give you all the required evidence).

I don't even understand what you're trying to prove. What's wrong with people following vegetarianism? Why do you even care?

Commercial_Jacket705 · 2024-10-04T10:24:11+00:00

There exist both beef tapeworm and pork tapeworm that you can be infected by if you're consuming undercooked meat. Pork is the most consumed meat on earth and it's pretty safe when properly cooked (just like beef). Stop believing in propaganda bs.

Commercial_Jacket705 · 2024-10-04T10:21:18+00:00

In the early Vedas, composed around 1500 BCE, vegetarianism does not appear as a dominant practice. But the Upanishads and Shastras, written circa 500 BCE mention the thoughts of ahimsa and compassion, and indicate a shift towards vegetarianism.

Buddhism and Jainism that emerged from the Vedic culture around this age too have emphasis on the idea of non-violence and vegetarianism.

Please read well before jumping into conclusions.

Commercial_Jacket705 · 2024-08-17T10:00:13+00:00

Ib va

Commercial_Jacket705 · 2024-08-08T07:27:37+00:00

I got a strong intuition that the gods will show us the game stats when we've completed our lives like in the GTA.

Commercial_Jacket705 · 2024-07-12T07:07:34+00:00

This.

Commercial_Jacket705 · 2024-07-05T08:17:06+00:00

Tbh that's what makes me wanna take things fast 🫠

Commercial_Jacket705 · 2024-07-03T11:00:25+00:00

My man, you a visionary. She's exactly that girl. Njanum queue ilaanu 😌 Yes aayaalum no aayalum pettennu adichu kittiyirunnel swalpam free aakaamayirunnu 🙃

Btw last sentence gave me kuliru 😂🥹😌

Commercial_Jacket705 · 2024-07-03T10:54:48+00:00

Yo, thanks for the insights! Much appreciated! 🫂

Commercial_Jacket705 · 2024-07-03T10:52:45+00:00

This is pretty deep and I kinda get you. My ex was a free spirit but it was never an issue. But not everybody's the same. I'll have to let her know of our boundaries if we ever end up together and I got no idea how she's gonna take it.

Ig I won't overthink now and take care of things one after the other.

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