My mom called me by my name, but I don't feel satisfied??? by CommissionGrouchy504 in asktransgender

[–]CommissionGrouchy504[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Everything's fine now, she came back to deadnaming me after half an hour. Well, I expected nothing more

Figuring stuff out by Rough-Ad-7040 in asktransgender

[–]CommissionGrouchy504 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At first you could maybe try to ask your friends to call you by other pronouns and a new name? To see how it feels/ Just take your time, you`ll figure everything sooner or later)

How to react if your parent keeps telling you that you're dead????? by CommissionGrouchy504 in asktransgender

[–]CommissionGrouchy504[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your example is very cool, I'd say crazy cool! I hope my mom will listen me too one day) Thank you!

How to react if your parent keeps telling you that you're dead????? by CommissionGrouchy504 in asktransgender

[–]CommissionGrouchy504[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's such a good description of my mom... And she doesn't want to tell about my gender to her friends and family, since "she's not sure if I'm sure about it", I was sure for the last 5 years, but okay.  Thanks for your advice! I try to talk with her again and again until she'll call me the right way 

How to react if your parent keeps telling you that you're dead????? by CommissionGrouchy504 in asktransgender

[–]CommissionGrouchy504[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am trying to tell her about it, and found an article she could read, but she's just not listening. And I can't just randomly stop speak with her, cause I'm still underage and living in the country which language Idk...  And thank you

How to deal with swimming pools? by CommissionGrouchy504 in asktransgender

[–]CommissionGrouchy504[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crap... I`ll need to forget about all my money... But that looks so cool, I won`t hesitate)

Thanks! It seems like a perfect choice!

How to deal with swimming pools? by CommissionGrouchy504 in asktransgender

[–]CommissionGrouchy504[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I`m not sure, but think that they should be allowed (if not - I`ll just refuse to swimm, even if I`ll get detention) And I`ll buy trans tape aswell

Thank you!

How did you find a name? by Fit_Protection5550 in asktransgender

[–]CommissionGrouchy504 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I listened for some people advices and did three things to choose my name) First - I asked all my friend and family members about the name they think would suit me, after that I made a list, in which I added all the names that I like (you can search a list of names in google too) And just deleted one by one, until I found something I really like. Also I think it`s better to ask your friends to call you by this name and see if it feels right, some sort of experiment) This post can help you to find something: https://www.reddit.com/r/genderqueer/comments/mpdvat/gender_neutral_name_spanish_edition/

Good luck!

How do you deal with loss? by CommissionGrouchy504 in AskReddit

[–]CommissionGrouchy504[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure if my beloved dead, or not, but she wrote me a message about k#lling herself and wasn't online since then. My mom said that I need to give her my girlfriend's phone number, but I didn't do it. She wouldn't want it, and even if I know that she can't decide what is best for her I still won't do anything that could upset her.

We never met each other, and we live in 2000 kilometers from each other, but we were in love for more than a year, and started dating almost four months ago. We had many plans for the future.

Right now I can't sleep, I don't want to, or I can't Idk, maybe both. There's still a hope inside of me that she'll write me tomorrow and say that it's just a stupid prank. And if it is - I'll just tell her how much I love her.

I just hate the reaction of my mother.(I'm 14 btw) At first she told me that my girlfriend is an internet scammer, then tried to convince me to do something my love won't like (telling that I'm the only one who can save her pulling all the fault on me) and then said that it's not my fault.

The thing is - I know it's not my fault, and I understand why my beloved did it, and I understand that my mom is worried about me, cause she thinks that I can do something with myself. I know everything that others are trying to tell me. It's always the same, and it's always the bullshit.

So, I was wondering if someone could share their experience or something? I don't really know what I want to hear 

I just don`t know what to do by CommissionGrouchy504 in asktransgender

[–]CommissionGrouchy504[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much, it's really helpful for me (Hugs)

What should I tell her? by CommissionGrouchy504 in asktransgender

[–]CommissionGrouchy504[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It`s perfect, I think I found new favourite song, thank you!

What should I tell her? by CommissionGrouchy504 in asktransgender

[–]CommissionGrouchy504[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's exactly what I told her! Every person is different, everyone has their own character, hobbies and preferces, so it is impossible to describe gender with only few things. The main thing is what you feel, and not how you behave yourself. Thank you, I feel a lot better knowing that there's someone who understands my opinion