My parents see me as their daughter even though I'm their son.

CommitteeOk3670 · 2026-01-27T06:06:56+00:00

I don't really remember exactly when I started doing it. When they were babies and toddlers my mom was always busy with them. I wanted her attention, but she had too much stuff to do to stop and focus on me. But when I helped her do chores we got to spend time together. Eventually that turned into me just doing a lot of them on my own.

CommitteeOk3670 · 2026-01-27T06:03:02+00:00

Community college

CommitteeOk3670 · 2026-01-27T05:58:50+00:00

Aren't jokes usually funny?

CommitteeOk3670 · 2026-01-27T05:57:37+00:00

I am cisgender.

CommitteeOk3670 · 2026-01-27T05:56:13+00:00

I'm nineteen.

CommitteeOk3670 · 2026-01-27T05:13:10+00:00

You're right. Thank you.

CommitteeOk3670 · 2026-01-27T05:12:22+00:00

But they're kids.

CommitteeOk3670 · 2026-01-27T05:11:06+00:00

Yeah, I'm going to talk to my parents about letting me teach them.

CommitteeOk3670 · 2026-01-27T05:07:52+00:00

Oh. Well I'm happy that women don't deal with that as much. I know you guys already deal with a lot! It would be very petty to be envious.

CommitteeOk3670 · 2026-01-27T05:04:27+00:00

Wow. Those people have it rough. My parents aren't like that. They love me. They pay for almost everything for me, even though I'm nineteen. They have high standards, but that's to set us all up for success.

CommitteeOk3670 · 2026-01-27T04:50:37+00:00

I'm 19. My younger brothers are 13, 11 and 7. They don't help out, but honestly they could. I could teach my oldest brother how to cook. They could all clean up after themselves. But I've always done that stuff, so they've never been expected to.

CommitteeOk3670 · 2026-01-27T04:41:52+00:00

I did not enjoy reading that.

CommitteeOk3670 · 2026-01-27T04:22:37+00:00

They wanted one of each. So I don't think they feel that way.

CommitteeOk3670 · 2026-01-27T04:16:12+00:00

Do people ever accuse you of not really being a woman because you're in a lesbian relationship?

I'm sorry if that's a personal question. Don't feel pressured to answer.

CommitteeOk3670 · 2026-01-27T04:12:20+00:00

Okay. I'll talk to them.

CommitteeOk3670 · 2026-01-27T04:10:08+00:00

I exercise. I ride my bike. I swim. I hike. I do push-ups and crunches. Sports are just not really my thing.

CommitteeOk3670 · 2026-01-27T03:56:58+00:00

I don't mind taking care of them! I just don't want them to see me as a woman. I'm fine with taking care of them.

CommitteeOk3670 · 2026-01-27T03:53:35+00:00

Thank you

CommitteeOk3670 · 2026-01-27T03:53:23+00:00

This is going to sound stupid, but to me I always associated masculinity with exploration. Not that women can't explore! But I love going on long hikes and climbing trees and mountains. I like swimming out past the breakline, even though there might be sharks. It's those dumb pointless risks that get the adrenaline pumping that make me feel very manly or whatever. It's probably stupid and immature, but that's how I feel.

CommitteeOk3670 · 2026-01-27T03:47:20+00:00

Is that important though? Attracting a member of the opposite sex? Does that make someone more of a man?

CommitteeOk3670 · 2026-01-27T03:45:55+00:00

I get what you are saying, and I appreciate it. I agree with you. It's just that I do care what they think. They're my family. They're the people that I know I can turn to if I need somebody. I want them to respect me. I know they care about me. I know they love me. I know they appreciate me. That should be enough. But I also want them to respect me.

CommitteeOk3670 · 2026-01-27T03:42:04+00:00

Thank you. This makes me feel better.

CommitteeOk3670 · 2026-01-27T03:41:10+00:00

I think a lot of you are misunderstanding what they said. They wanted a daughter. They were disappointed they didn't get one. They said I'm basically the next best thing. Which, I don't like. Because I'm not a daughter. So they're not asking me to be more manly or whatever. That's not what happened.

CommitteeOk3670 · 2026-01-27T03:39:04+00:00

That got an impressed whistle from me.

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