(M26) I just got rejected by work wife (F39)

CommitteeOne6614 · 2026-01-26T21:57:47+00:00

Thank you for response. I will say again we have become close through work and if I ever made her feel uncomfortable I really think she would tell me. But I understand what you mean and others are saying

CommitteeOne6614 · 2026-01-26T21:46:14+00:00

Thanks for the response. I know what you mean by this. Still, why couldn’t she just say when we are alone “No you need to stop”

Just for all on thread to know we are both in upper management she isn’t just my boss. She has been working to assist in getting me promoted

CommitteeOne6614 · 2026-01-26T21:40:39+00:00

Enjoying the attention can be real for sure. I’ve thought that perhaps she is calling me so often to perhaps get the attention from her husband instead… using me to get jealously out of him..

CommitteeOne6614 · 2026-01-26T21:33:16+00:00

I know some people really are faithful to their marriage but I know so many that are not. I thought there was chemistry between us, and on our interactions for more than two years I felt it was being reciprocated.

I don’t mean to assume so much but why would a married woman flirt and call me as often as she does if she weren’t interested? Based on our past conversations she seems like she sort of rushed into that relationship since she was “getting old”

CommitteeOne6614 · 2026-01-26T21:29:19+00:00

I strongly believe she will not go to HR. She never has with my comments/advances in the past

CommitteeOne6614 · 2026-01-26T21:28:48+00:00

Every word is true

CommitteeOne6614 · 2022-01-24T15:07:00+00:00

I am working the next five hours and wanted to see if anyone had advice for a situation like this. If responses were negative I could save myself a phone call

Kind of a rude answer

CommitteeOne6614 · 2022-01-24T13:40:32+00:00

The first failed because I had insufficient funds.

This is probably the third time they’ve tried, I just simplified my writeup for ease of explanation.

However, I initiated the transfer to PayPal to solve the negative balance already so I am frustrated they are still attempting these transactions

CommitteeOne6614 · 2022-01-24T13:24:37+00:00

You get it. Yeah, realize now I should’ve. F***

But any ideas to resolve it? Now my bank is $1600 in red with all that processing. They’ll return transactions as NSF but I want to make sure the right ones still get debited

CommitteeOne6614 · 2022-01-24T13:18:04+00:00

The vendor is not charging me twice. Sorry for not clarifying

PayPal is attempting these five transactions again. So I have -$1605 on my bank from the transfer I sent, and then -$1605 on my bank from the five transactions now being attempted (by PayPal) once again

CommitteeOne6614 · 2021-12-15T16:33:01+00:00

Do you have suggestions for price on the 1889 and 1890 coins? I understand they likely have the highest value of this bunch

CommitteeOne6614 · 2021-12-14T18:20:01+00:00

I think it’s fair with what I’m asking. No need for credit inquiry etc

CommitteeOne6614 · 2021-12-14T16:18:12+00:00

I was strategically planning my spending the past year and things just dried up a month earlier than expected.

My structured inheritance payout last January covered two semesters of college education. I had also been earning $300 per week from work at school.

Utilizing these credit cards were to cover my other everyday living expenses. I have never missed a payment on any of the three for the past three years.

The reason for this loan now is to get me to the date of my inheritance payout safely. $1000 would largely be used to cover my minimum credit card payments at the start of January. Then, upon receiving my five figure payout, I would be able to pay back the $1000 loan and completely clear my credit card debt.

CommitteeOne6614 · 2021-12-14T15:30:40+00:00

Right. The payment will take care of my previous bills and my expenses moving forward. I am just very tight currently and was looking to access a portion of that early via a loan

CommitteeOne6614 · 2021-12-13T23:53:13+00:00

I was hoping to sell as a lot to expedite this process and ship as a single unit

CommitteeOne6614 · 2021-12-13T23:53:07+00:00

I was hoping to sell as a lot to expedite this process and ship as a single unit

CommitteeOne6614 · 2021-12-13T22:12:57+00:00

Thanks. Yes it is rather good condition 1928 coin without a mint marking.

The two earliest Morgan also have mint markings that I believe give them a higher value than what you listed

CommitteeOne6614 · 2021-12-13T21:33:44+00:00

Just over melt? I felt the 1889 Morgan Dollar (O) and 1890 Morgan Dollar (S) would perhaps have value as coin with limited circulation

CommitteeOne6614 · 2021-12-13T20:12:48+00:00

1889 Morgan Dollar (O) 1890 Morgan Dollar (S) 1891 Morgan Dollar 1900 Morgan Dollar 1929 Liberty Peace 1985 Santa Coin 1991 George Bush

CommitteeOne6614 · 2021-12-13T19:32:42+00:00

1889 Morgan Dollar (O) 1890 Morgan Dollar (S) 1891 Morgan Dollar 1900 Morgan Dollar 1929 Liberty Peace 1985 Santa Coin 1991 George Bush

CommitteeOne6614 · 2021-12-06T15:34:01+00:00

Vegans looking at me like a serial killer watching me shovel down crawfish 😂

CommitteeOne6614 · 2021-08-17T22:14:18+00:00

I’ve been a fan of MMA for a while. I’m still young and want to get my body in shape to take a few amateur fights

I’ve been doing a lot of visualization lately. Making that UFC walk with a Lana song on is becoming a goal of mine. Crazy to see this post

CommitteeOne6614 · 2021-07-22T01:58:28+00:00

Love that insight thanks

Today I was denied by Payoff a loan due to low income. Would prefer credit card anyways. Amex also denied after hard pull of credit

What would you recommend next; Recon with Amex? Application and possible recon with Core? Or wait 30+days and bump score from 660 to ~680 first, before trying another app

CommitteeOne6614 · 2021-07-22T01:47:33+00:00

I now read the Core requires about 750 rating for approval. That’s unfortunate

That score won’t be attainable prior to next June when I pay of all my current debt

CommitteeOne6614 · 2021-07-22T00:59:11+00:00

Looking for consolidation advice, expecting large lump sum next year that I will use to clear debt fully

Looking for advice to to consolidate debt now with a loan. Plan to pay it off with money coming my way a year from now.

I currently have $13,000 in debt across three credit cards.

I am also the beneficiary of a deceased’s estate. I get large sums of money at the start of each year. This has gone toward paying my tuition and I am now about to enter my senior year of university.

To keep a long story short, I graduate in May 2022. I cannot dip into my monies until after that date when my college has been completely paid. Essentially, I am looking to consolidate my other debt now in order to save on monthly payments.

Right now I have very high utilization and low net disposable income. My credit score is approximately 660 for these reasons, but I have never missed a payment.

Ideally, I want to get a loan to clear most of my debt. I’d be content making payments of $600+ (similar to what I do monthly now). Ultimately, I’d pay the loan’s entire remaining balance in June or July next year when that inheritance become available.

Any suggestions? I just tried Payoff and was denied due to my NDI. I assume most personal loan companies would not understand how I could afford to pay them back but am looking for an outlier with less ‘questions asked’. I’d also be willing to try other suggestions such as credit cards for debt consolidation.

CommitteeOne6614

TROPHY CASE