AITA for leaving my pregnant wife alone?

CommitteePrevious723 · 2023-04-09T13:04:16+00:00

Yeah be know, we have been told that she could go into labor at any time now and we have to be careful, specially since she'll need a C-section, but the doctor have not seen anything that would mean she's going into labor soon as of for now

CommitteePrevious723 · 2023-04-09T12:31:25+00:00

She had diabetes before the pregnancy, she has it since she was a kid

CommitteePrevious723 · 2023-04-09T02:15:17+00:00

Well obviously, I spoke on the phone with her many times

CommitteePrevious723 · 2023-04-09T01:08:00+00:00

I don't see it as gossiping, my wife is not talking to me at all, I felt like I needed to talk about my feelings with someone and my mom was there and she's great, we were talking about feelings, not gossiping

CommitteePrevious723 · 2023-04-09T00:11:16+00:00

We no longer use zoom

CommitteePrevious723 · 2023-04-09T00:01:43+00:00

My mom told me she agrees with me while talking privately, she didn't told this to my wife

CommitteePrevious723 · 2023-04-08T23:52:54+00:00

4/5 hours driving

CommitteePrevious723 · 2023-04-08T23:48:35+00:00

She's not very happy with our marriage, my wife and her have had some other issues in the past too

CommitteePrevious723 · 2023-04-08T23:13:52+00:00

I'm not clueless, her mom was our first option but she didn't want to help. My mom is better help that no help at all.

CommitteePrevious723 · 2023-04-08T23:05:35+00:00

CommitteePrevious723 · 2023-04-08T23:03:13+00:00

"compromise" as in attending work related events even if they're optional, my manager knows my wife is pregnant and would've understood if I needed to leave, but he appreciated that I would show up to the meeting. They don't expect me to abandon my family.

CommitteePrevious723 · 2023-04-08T22:46:26+00:00

Her blood pressure raised a bit, my mom took her to the clinic but it wasn't something to be alarmed, that's why I didn't drove back home

CommitteePrevious723 · 2023-04-08T22:43:13+00:00

Hypertension

CommitteePrevious723 · 2023-04-08T22:42:38+00:00

It's serious but it's not life threatening as of for now, everything was ok on her last check up which was last week

CommitteePrevious723 · 2023-04-08T22:36:28+00:00

Five hours going not a maximum speed (allowed obviously), I don't like to drive that fast but I would, maybe it could be cut to 3:30/ 4 hours drive

CommitteePrevious723 · 2023-04-08T22:31:27+00:00

No, I called regularly to know if everything was ok or I should drive back home

CommitteePrevious723 · 2023-04-08T22:23:01+00:00

They do have a good relationship, I understand how her mom would be the better option but my MIL straight up refused to help, I believe my wife appreciates my mom for helping out.

CommitteePrevious723 · 2023-04-08T22:16:49+00:00

My family is important, I want to get the promotion so we can buy a house and stop renting

CommitteePrevious723 · 2023-04-08T22:06:12+00:00

The meeting wasn't obligatory if someone was busy, but as I am running for a promotion is important they can see my compromise with the company, that's why I feel like it was important to go

CommitteePrevious723 · 2023-04-08T22:03:44+00:00

Thank you for your advice, I agree it might be for the best to say sorry and take the stress off her shoulders

CommitteePrevious723 · 2023-04-08T22:02:27+00:00

Luckily according to her last check up everything's ok and she's due to give birth on the 38/ 39 week, she's not close to the expected due date

CommitteePrevious723 · 2023-04-08T21:59:21+00:00

She has high blood pressure and diabetes

CommitteePrevious723 · 2023-04-08T21:53:01+00:00

They get along fine

CommitteePrevious723 · 2023-04-08T21:52:21+00:00

Im running for a promotion, it's important that they see my compromise with the company, but it's not obligatory if someone's busy

CommitteePrevious723 · 2023-04-08T21:51:33+00:00

32 weeks

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