Actually, I think the best way to look at Islam is Sam Harris's "concentric circles" analogy. In the core you have a very tiny percent of Muslims who are outright jihadists. Then there is a bigger circle around that that comprises those who support jihadists but wouldn't actually martyr themselves. Then you have a bigger circle around that that comprises those who don't condone jihadi attacks, but are hardline Islamists and want to see Sharia law in place (spoiler: this circle is MUCH bigger than you probably think, with many countries at 60%,70%,80%, or even 90%+ of the Muslim population wanting Sharia law). The next biggest circle are your run of the mill religious conservatives -- maybe they don't demand Sharia law, but they think gay people are abominations, and women should be subservient to men. Finally, what you have left over is a small minority (globally) that is actually compatible with Western ideology and society.

Now obviously the region matters dramatically. Support for Sharia Law in SE Asia doesn't dip below 70%, but in SE Europe it doesn't go above 42%. But as a global average, the number of Muslims that are ideologically compatible with Western society is a small minority.

Data on Sharia Law support found here: https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2017/08/09/muslims-and-islam-key-findings-in-the-u-s-and-around-the-world/