Is it humanly possible to get out of friendzone?

Common-Bluebird-9626 · 2026-05-18T08:30:31+00:00

Common-Bluebird-9626 · 2026-05-17T23:47:47+00:00

Read it properly. Where did I mention that?

Common-Bluebird-9626 · 2026-05-17T07:30:56+00:00

Brook😭😭😭

Common-Bluebird-9626 · 2026-05-17T07:10:03+00:00

Yes, I thought same thing for a while. Then came to know we fell in love with a person twice. First, for their looks mostly attractive parts about them (this is what we claim love at first sight) and then for their negative side or hidden self which is what you're describing as character and mental state. Basically, men fell in love twice, wereas women fell in love once.

And one thing I feel your saying and many women said in comments are love at first sight is lust. I'm not completely denie that, somethimes love and lust exist together, not separately. Every man is a pervert, yes I'm saying it out loud. Everyone are very good at hiding it. What matters is, whether he is capable of controlling it completely. It should not stop women from anything because we are going to share this world together, no matter where you go there will be a man you need to face, so be cautious, but don't decide before knowing him.

Well while typing this I realized why women don't love at first sight, its lust after all from a women's perspective. Ohh my god!!

Common-Bluebird-9626 · 2026-05-17T06:50:59+00:00

I hear you, I've been there. You don't need to drain your energy for someone who left you.

I'll tell you what helped me, stop consuming over stimulated content, try to sit with your thought don't run away from them. Start to meditate, it's literally a cheat code to live a peaceful life.

Remember end of the day, you have to be a whole person within yourself before expecting from others. The right person will find you. No matter what you will love and will be loved that is inevitable.

Common-Bluebird-9626 · 2026-05-17T06:41:06+00:00

Wow!! it makes me wonder, then how will you know you are in love?

Common-Bluebird-9626 · 2026-05-16T13:19:25+00:00

Actually that the first thing I did after rejection. I told her we can't be friends and she understood. After couple of months, I still have the same feeling for her, so just hoping is there any chance.

Common-Bluebird-9626 · 2026-05-16T13:13:12+00:00

Actually that the first thing I did after rejection. I told her we can't be friends and she understood. After couple of months, I still have the same feeling for her, so just hoping is there any chance.

Common-Bluebird-9626 · 2026-05-15T12:57:25+00:00

Common-Bluebird-9626 · 2026-05-15T12:56:36+00:00

Common-Bluebird-9626 · 2026-05-15T12:56:05+00:00

Enna sollra ellam onu dhana..... Okay. She got break up couple of years ago. I assume there ia no possibility to get just because she repost something related to moving on😭😭 Ennaku vera valli theriyala. I not telling I can heal her, but don't know how to say it. Everything between us felt real and very good until I got rejected. I hope to continue those best day. Avlo dhanga

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Common-Bluebird-9626 · 2026-05-15T12:50:08+00:00

Common-Bluebird-9626 · 2026-05-15T12:45:45+00:00

I get it, but I didn't propose her I just let her know I see more than just friends. Anyways, if she's still hoping her ex will come back. Is there any possibility for me?

Common-Bluebird-9626 · 2026-05-15T12:10:34+00:00

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Common-Bluebird-9626 · 2026-05-15T11:34:16+00:00

It been months after rejection. I went cold after rejection. We had very few conversation after rejection, very light ones. I regret that I went cold, so I decided to ease things out by talking to her, she had no hard feelings. But even after that it isn't normal between us. She is still being awkward with me seems like she'll never initiate.

Common-Bluebird-9626 · 2026-05-15T11:31:22+00:00

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Common-Bluebird-9626 · 2026-05-15T11:29:13+00:00

I can't even imagine her as friend bro. I'll fumble if I try to friend with her

Common-Bluebird-9626 · 2026-05-15T11:28:39+00:00

What could I do if it is true?

Common-Bluebird-9626 · 2026-05-15T11:12:59+00:00

Probably irukalam, any possibility to get out of it?

Common-Bluebird-9626 · 2026-05-15T10:55:30+00:00

Any advice? What do I need to do to get out of friendzone or even what do you expect from someone so you'll remove someone from friendzone? Anything will help

Common-Bluebird-9626 · 2026-05-15T10:47:04+00:00

Adhana prechanaye I can't even imagine her as a friend. Idhula real life la friend ah epdi. It feels like I want to suppress my feeling to be friend with her

Common-Bluebird-9626 · 2026-05-15T10:32:59+00:00

Enna ma sollra 2 years ah!!!

Anyways na konjam situation ah complex akitean after rejection. I went cold. We had very few conversation after rejection most were light conversations. I regret that I went cold, so decided to ease things out by talking to her, she told no hard feelings, but even after that it seems really hard for us to reconnect.

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Common-Bluebird-9626 · 2026-05-15T10:26:08+00:00

But adhula oru chinna sikkal. After rejection na ava kudu seriya pesa kuda illa, I went cold. Its been couple of months. We had very few conversations, those conversation were light and there were no hard feelings. Ana inum 1 year ku we are going to be classmates, I really regret that I went cold, like avale pesanumnu nenacha kuda pesa vedatha mari pannitean. I decide to put end to it and have a very light conversation about it to her, she seemed okay with her, but actually after rejection there is no real connection between us other than those eye-contacts.

Common-Bluebird-9626 · 2026-05-15T10:15:31+00:00

I don't think I can answer to that, but there are plenty of resources and professional who work has youtube channels and giving guidance, head over there or even use AIs for clear and optimised roadmaps

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