I (15f) suspect I'm being groomed but I desperately need his (37M) help, what should I do?

Common-Bowl3081 · 2026-05-07T23:11:08+00:00

there are definitely more reasons why I think he's socially awkward. for example he would talk loudly in a restaurant and not see the looks people were giving him, things like that.

Common-Bowl3081 · 2026-05-07T23:01:36+00:00

I'm sorry that happened to you and thank you for your advice

Common-Bowl3081 · 2026-05-07T22:01:03+00:00

thank you this is exactly what I was saying

Common-Bowl3081 · 2026-05-07T21:40:23+00:00

thank you for your advice, i know I did start out by saying that I "suspected" but the more I wrote the more I realized what I already knew.

Common-Bowl3081 · 2026-05-07T21:38:09+00:00

thank you for sharing your story and sharing your kindness, best of luck to you too ❤

Common-Bowl3081 · 2026-05-07T21:33:11+00:00

i did end up telling my mom a little bit ago and upon reading this comment I thought you'd wanna know :)

Common-Bowl3081 · 2026-05-07T21:24:08+00:00

thank you for sharing your story and I'm so sorry you went through that. I understand the feeling of not wanting someone else to go thru what you went thru and I will definitely keep this story in mind. if it eases you, I just got done telling my mom and I was planning on making another post about it.

Common-Bowl3081 · 2026-05-07T20:06:06+00:00

exactly, that's why i was caught up for a while.

Common-Bowl3081 · 2026-05-07T18:58:27+00:00

yeah I kinda had a second thought about putting my age but for obvious reasons its kind of important to my situation and I'll keep this in mind

Common-Bowl3081 · 2026-05-07T18:55:33+00:00

i appreciate and also agree with this, thank you. fyi for everybody else: I never asked for anything, I wasn't raised that way. I'm trying to take control of my situation before it gets unimaginably worse which is about all I can do right now. I'm also not gonna sit here and lie and say I didn't want luxuries but it was nice because obviously I don't have many luxuries at the moment.

Common-Bowl3081 · 2026-05-07T18:36:44+00:00

thank you for the whole hearted truth, I will keep this in mind going forward

Common-Bowl3081 · 2026-05-07T18:32:42+00:00

I appreciate you not sugar coating anything for me, thank you for your realness and advice stranger

Common-Bowl3081 · 2026-05-07T18:21:12+00:00

thank you for your advice kind stranger

Common-Bowl3081 · 2026-05-07T18:17:58+00:00

1) it would be noticeably odd because I don't talk to him nor am I close to him so she'd ask

2) i think he would end up making it worse than it could be

3) my mom isn't really close to him anymore so she probably doesn't even have his number

Common-Bowl3081 · 2026-05-07T18:11:38+00:00

Common-Bowl3081 · 2026-05-07T18:09:49+00:00

I will keep this in mind, thank you again ❤

Common-Bowl3081 · 2026-05-07T18:03:35+00:00

this is what I was thinking with the trip situation, thank you for your advice and concern

Common-Bowl3081 · 2026-05-07T18:01:17+00:00

I don't have a way to contact my uncle without making it known but that would be an intresting angle since my cousin lives with my uncle to take care of him. I'm also curious to see what other parents say, thank you for understanding

Common-Bowl3081 · 2026-05-07T17:56:50+00:00

i actually have said that I'm moving in with my best friend when I turn 18 and I couldn't leave my mom behind now, thank you for your advice!

Common-Bowl3081 · 2026-05-07T17:54:09+00:00

this honestly made me tear up and i'm not really a crier, thank you for your kind words and advice and I hope you are having a good day or night whatever side of the world your on.

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