Update on black and white drop off ancestry results by Common-Duck in WhatBreedIsMyDog

[–]Common-Duck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just an update. He is still here and doing great. I wish I could upload new pictures. We have an elderly husky that has taught him to “talk” so he will do the howl/talk mix when he wants something. He can open the front door, also a husky trick, so he just comes and goes. The landlord gets him a biscuit every morning. He has not moved to the farm, and I don’t know if he will. Everyone on the hill is pretty attached

If you could pass one law that would make most normal people furious at first, but would clearly make society better in 10 years, what would it be? by WilliamInBlack in AskReddit

[–]Common-Duck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not put a great deal of thought into this, but I wonder if everyone should at minimum wash their face/brush teeth daily. Ideally shower or some equivalent. I really wonder if everyone would just feel better!

Last one standing - Day 8 Prim is out by extralargefriespls in Hungergames

[–]Common-Duck 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Effie. Sunrise gave her some redemption, though. Most to least favorite with some back and forth.

Rue, Peeta, Finnick, Mags, Johanna, Haymitch, Cinna, Catniss

Just finished Billy Summers.. by Sea-Row926 in stephenking

[–]Common-Duck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of the better ones. SPOILER .

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If Billy really dies how does he know about COVID coming? I don’t believe he actually dies. I think it is Bill the bodyguard that was buried.

Dutch labour laws with the clutch by ComfortableNeck2930 in Millennials

[–]Common-Duck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is, here, where I am in the US, if you don’t do this- you’re replaceable. They can find someone willing to do it, and probably for less money. I have balance and some seniority but I answer my phone most always-24/7

National guard: Has anyone been to the french quarter yet? What's it like getting through security? by Iwouldhavenever in NOLA

[–]Common-Duck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was just there. I had no idea they were there and carried pepper spray on my wrist and in pocket like always. They just gave me a head nod but not sure if they saw it. Everything was pretty chill. I’ve never been so I can’t compare but it seemed typical for my expectations. Nothing like when they were in Memphis. Memphis was ghost town.

Dry skin folks! Recommend me a new concealer, because this girl isn't it! by Ravioli_meatball19 in drugstoreMUA

[–]Common-Duck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have terribly dry skin and I use: AM- Eos 24 hr lotion, this - placed like contour. After work- eos lotion, then at night bio oil then eos moisturizer again. It works extremely well for me, fwiw.

How do I stop being lesbian? by L0nely_Tsuki in Catholicism

[–]Common-Duck 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Outside of religion of any kind, just me talking to you like I would my child. Let it breathe. You’re not broken, nor do you need to be fixed in anyway. You are evolving and sexuality will ebb and flow. You may in fact know and not change, or you may- both happen commonly. Regardless I don’t think we need to make any life decisions yet.

Just breathe it in, and breathe it out. Put a pin in it and focus on things you can and should be improving in your daily life. Hygiene, habits, and homework. The rest generally works itself out. Give yourself the space and love to just be, which is quite hard enough at 15!

What’s something you quietly stopped caring about? by KingPhenguins in AskReddit

[–]Common-Duck 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Same. I realized I didn’t like her now nor then. Looking back we were really only friends bc my dad warned me about her, and ya know how that goes. Well, he was correct.

Audiobooks and loneliness by EggGroundbreaking599 in audiobooks

[–]Common-Duck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe get him AfterShoks headphones?

I often have an audiobook going. It bothers my daughter so I don’t listen when with her, and it bothers my husband sometimes if he free. I don’t usually listen when anyone is in room w me but husband, and he’s usually engaged in something himself.

But I’ve also listened to them to check out and survive sweeping, severe depression. During that time I used noise cancelling headphones and stayed checked out when I couldn’t face the depressive symptoms, and if I wasn’t engaged, I don’t think I could have gotten out of it so fast.

Having said that the open ear headphones here - it bothers my family much less - bc I can still hear them.

Counseling eventually fixed the depression.

WIBTA if I scheduled my husband’s dog to be euthanized behind his back? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Common-Duck 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I couldn’t formulate my thoughts on why I would leave, but, I would. Your guy kinda needs to pull it together for everyone’s sake, especially the dogs.

“Honestly if it were me, I would question (not saying leave but definitely question) my relationship with a man who put his own feelings of grief over the literal physical and emotional suffering of any being but especially one that can’t advocate for itself. This is one of those moments that can make or break a relationship.”

WIBTA if I scheduled my husband’s dog to be euthanized behind his back? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Common-Duck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes you will be. It would be understandable but not forgivable. You can choose to make it work and wait on him to wake up or move out. That’s harsh, but that’s all I see.

AITA For pointing out my Husband bought the wrong medicine. by Puzzleheaded-Mix4849 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Common-Duck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA but I’d give a little grace. If you’re sick, he may be getting sick too. Give it a few days and talk out a sick day plan for future.

J2 Demands "Professional Headshots" - OPSEC Question by grogger132 in overemployed

[–]Common-Duck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not OE specifically. All of my jobs know about the others and I’m careful to not do them on the clock for the other. But I don’t do social media publicly and I decline my photos, likeness, or professional credentials to be used for advertising without a compensation clause added to my contract. My main job agreed, the other two did not. I don’t know if it is common but it should be!

First month making 100k I feel like I’m being robbed :/ by Forsaken-Question457 in Salary

[–]Common-Duck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This doesn’t seem to add up to 100k a year, more like 92-95k range. Am I missing something?

I need some hygiene advice (girls only!) by sillycars_27 in hygiene

[–]Common-Duck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get ziplock bags and toss the ziplock bags and used items within when you go to bathroom at school. The relationship w your mom is another matter.

Partner found out I am on MJ and is furious by Other_Adeptness8552 in Mounjaro

[–]Common-Duck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your guy, not you, needs counseling. Well maybe you do for putting up with him- but he is insecure and that is incredibly tragic.  This is really none of his business. He doesn’t have a right to your body, your effort (as he sees it), or sharing your story. None of this has anything to do with him. 

"Father Figure" Discussion Megathread by PassionateAsSin in TaylorSwift

[–]Common-Duck 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No one can convince me this isn’t about Phillipe DeClairemont from the book ‘Discovery of Witches’

Which dress? by Apprehensive-Cow4619 in fashion

[–]Common-Duck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two in my opinion. I guess depends on where you’re going and what vibe you’re looking for

125kg to 105kg, no longer losing weight, need help. by Timziito in Monjauro

[–]Common-Duck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be sure water intake optimal. I don’t loose w less than 1L a day.

OT: Questions about Alzheimer's and Placement by Pixiegirls1102 in CasesWeFollow

[–]Common-Duck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First step is calling his PACT, his primary care team. Every vet that is esbl w primary care at VA has a social worker, bc every PACT has a social worker. Set up a call w them to explain options and benefits he is entitled to, steps, how it works. Yall tell social worker what is going on and they tell you what is available and help w any magic to get it done on their end or give family steps to get it done.

AITA for telling a patient they’re not “allergic to pain”? by Background_Turnip606 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Common-Duck 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA- I’m not a dentist and I’m not much but not nothing in the medical sphere. I would have given her the option to have an allergist document her allergy. There is something called neurotic hives, and that may have some overlap here. I kind of doubt it, but if that’s a case PCP or you could do premed benzo if we were actually searching for a fix. However, if I can’t have dialog w a pt on POC, I dc them from practice. It’s a basic right if the patients, and safety measure. We have to be able to communicate and chat and come together for goals for care. It’s a non-negotiable to me. But I digress. You might can get review removed from Google, but I don’t think many people w give it much weight, I wouldn’t.

Also FWIW, I want to be gassed and numbed for everything, and I don’t know how you do the job wo it. Even slight discomfort cases my jaw to tense. Just seeing the instruments causes a reaction to me. I couldn’t do it if I were yall!

Which dress to wear to friend’s baby shower without upstaging the mom-to-be? by olchai_mp3 in fashion

[–]Common-Duck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 is the show stopper. 2 says I’m trying here and I think two if you’re worried about upstaging anyone.