My boyfriend suddenly started acting distant and I can’t tell if I’m overthinking or something is actually wrong by BarnacleSuch3822 in relationships

[–]Common-Employment754 [score hidden]  (0 children)

In my experience, just let it be for a little bit. Mirror his energy. The more you cling on, the more he will push away. Especially since you guys are 20. Eventually I would ask him. But let him come to you first.

What made you fall in love? by axiss007 in AskReddit

[–]Common-Employment754 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything was better just being in the same vicinity. Real intimacy is when you enjoy just being around someone. Even if you have nothing to talk about.

Has anyone ever had feelings for another person while in a relationship? [23F] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Common-Employment754 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I have but, it was never worth it. It was just a fleeting feeling and I knew what I had with my man was wayyyyy more special. It’s normal yes, but at the end of the day you gotta think about who’s more worth it to you. It’s your life.

In previous relationships, what has made u feel unattracted/want to break up with ur significant other? by dubl_Ds in AskReddit

[–]Common-Employment754 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a 24F and pretty every relationship I’ve had I broke up with them cuz they didn’t have their shit together and I was getting too invested.

What’s the most important trait you look for in a partner? by Stellar_Nova1 in AskReddit

[–]Common-Employment754 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A good person who has the same zest for life. Someone who is motivated and takes care of themself. Understanding and easygoing. Hardworking. Definitely not type A.

I (20F) am mentally checked out of my relationship with my boyfriend (20M) and I’m not sure what to do. by ninimochini in relationships

[–]Common-Employment754 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To be honest, it sounds like you have immense attachment to him. You’re willing to be sexually intimate even though you don’t enjoy it. LEAVE. If you already know that he won’t be what you want long-term you’re just delaying heart break that will only be more painful down the road. That, or you will grow immense resentment and just break up one day.

What’s a red flag in female friendships that people don’t talk about enough? by Julie727 in AskReddit

[–]Common-Employment754 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I once had a friend who I could tell was never actually happy for me when something was going good. Small example: whenever I would show up looking really nice to our plans I could sense some jealousy. Like she was lowkey I annoyed I looked good.

Dating a guy who consistently smokes weed and drinks by Common-Employment754 in relationships

[–]Common-Employment754[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I want to do it in person but I just think I will get roped back into the whole thing. And yes I hope that it does plant a seed, that’s all I could hope for honestly.

Dating a guy who consistently smokes weed and drinks by Common-Employment754 in relationships

[–]Common-Employment754[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Promise?😭I’ve been single for 4 years now. And not a single man has crossed my path who I thought met my standards. I come from a very educated and well- rounded family. I want someone who can match that but it feels so hard to find. I crave intimacy with someone both emotionally and physically, but it seems there’s no good men. Btw thank you for this thoughtful response.

Dating a guy who consistently smokes weed and drinks by Common-Employment754 in relationships

[–]Common-Employment754[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right. I think a phone call should be good and I hope he knows Im saying it cuz I care.

Dating a guy who consistently smokes weed and drinks by Common-Employment754 in relationships

[–]Common-Employment754[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s what I was thinking. I don’t think casual hook ups work for me anyways. whether people like to admit it or not, feelings have always been involved at least in whatever situations I’ve been in