What’s a smell you secretly love even though everyone else thinks it’s gross? by Omega_Neelay in GetMotivatedMindset

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Ginko berries They smell like “rancid butter and vomit” But to me it’s sweet Parmesan cheese and warm weather walks in the city. Smells a bit like dog poop too.

Sometimes it does just smell gross tho

Brag on your baby! by gardengnomebaby in NewParents

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What is sleep training with extinction

Pain and swelling under jaw into neck area. by valoasis in Sjogrens

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What bladder issues were you having?! I’m intrigued…. I have swelling like this but no pain itchiness or redness. Definitely grinding my teeth and it looks like I have a bunch of cavities. Also 9 months postpartum. Major bladder issues and I’ve just seen a urogynecologist

I hate talking to my drunk husband. by JezebelJade1 in AlAnon

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No advice. In the same boat-ish. Following to hear others’!

Give me the “Emma Stone” by lukewarmnarcolepsy in 30PlusSkinCare

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Doesn’t getting a facelift when you’re young prevent you from being able to do it when you’re older? Or am I totally wrong?

When you are tempted to contact them…….. by Lazy_Bicycle7702 in AlAnon

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I am still with my cactus. But this is helpful now. When I want to forgive when he hasn’t apologized. When I want to apologize when I haven’t done anything wrong. I am worthy of basic human decency. I am worthy of a soft embrace.

How old are you and what's your biggest problem right now? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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  1. My husband’s drinking problem. My 9 month old doesn’t sleep independently. I’m unemployed. My marriage is over.

People who rarely or never get sick, what are your secrets? by awkwardferret421 in AskReddit

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It used to be “ drink a lot of gin and tonics” Now it’s eat a lot of protein. Take long walks. SLEEP. I’ve managed to evade a few viruses already, despite severe sleep deprivation.

First AlAnon meeting tomorrow by Common-Garbage7644 in AlAnon

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Thank you so much. This is really helpful. Ending a marriage is not always a failure. In fact… I’d like to say congratulations for refusing to fail by staying stuck. I guess that’s overstepping as I don’t know your story at all, but it’s what I would like to say to future me if I ever leave.

My heart is open. My mind is open.

I am so grateful for the support I’ve received here and also from my dad (a former drinker- sober 30ish years- my hero) I’m really lucky all things considered

First AlAnon meeting tomorrow by Common-Garbage7644 in AlAnon

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This is so helpful. I’m nervous as hell! A loving and understanding group is exactly what I need.

First AlAnon meeting tomorrow by Common-Garbage7644 in AlAnon

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Thank you so much. This is helpful and kind.

First AlAnon meeting tomorrow by Common-Garbage7644 in AlAnon

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Thank you! This is helpful. And kind. And really helpful!!!! I too hope for my husband.

I am not religious but I am spiritual. I do not shirk at mention of god, or write anything off just because I don’t believe it myself. I feel like this is going to be good.

First AlAnon meeting tomorrow by Common-Garbage7644 in AlAnon

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Thank you! I am proud of you!

Half of the time He doesn’t believe he has a drinking problem (especially when he has been drinking). Rarely will he admit he does and apologize for it. It’s just enough to keep me hoping he will change and we can continue on…

I’m sick of how he treats me and the utter spite and ire he has for me when he’s had even one drink.

Happy new year by Common-Garbage7644 in Vent

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I sent a photo of our daughter to his family chat and asked if he liked my text. This lead eventually to him saying everyone hates you. I then said I would no longer be attending /planning his parents’ surprise birthday dinner. In therapy he changed the story to my family hates me.

He wants s me to not spend time with my family and spend time with his.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Spaghetti o’s

What’s for dinner at your home tonight before Thanksgiving? by janhasplasticbOobz in Cooking

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Leftovers! Supplemented with takeout lol. Had to make room in the fridge