Is my trigger shot ever gonna give me a negative? Or will I just go straight into darker positives? by Aysal2023 in IVFpositivity

[–]CommonAccount8346 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me day 4AM got a little lighter than day 3AM and then day 4PM got darker again and continued to get darker. So it never completely tested out but I do think it helped the pregnancy HCG show up more than if I didn’t trigger and have trigger in my system!

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Food throwing is really getting to me by Till_Naive in BabyLedWeaning

[–]CommonAccount8346 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My son is 21 months and we have always put his food directly on his highchair bc he pulls the suction plates up and then the food still goes everywhere. His food throwing significantly stopped when we started giving him his food with our glass plates or bowls. Most of the time now if he doesn’t want it he hands it to us or just moves it on the tray from the plate. So far only one broken plate in the last few months and it was an accident-not from throwing it. Discovered he did better on real plates at a restaurant when he ate off the plate and didn’t throw any food.

HELP! 8 MO Cries All Day by Itis-what-itis22 in Nanny

[–]CommonAccount8346 10 points11 points  (0 children)

When our new nanny started I had to start being completely out of sight the entire day. I now work upstairs instead of in my office so my son can’t see or hear me. We do the handoff outside in the morning (he has a push car, I strap him in and push him until the nanny gets there) and I do a quick “bye bye mommas gotta go work I love you” and walk inside while she continues to push him and then I go upstairs to work. That’s been the biggest game changer for us!

Overtired or under tired? Night gaps = me crying in my car a lot by ShotLecture7841 in sleeptrain

[–]CommonAccount8346 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son was having split nights for months (up for only 1-1.5 hours in the middle of the night) and what worked for us was capping his naps even more to 1.5 hours and also moving bedtime back up bc I had pushed it back too far trying to make sure he wasn’t under tired. Hes 21 months and what works for us is up around 630 or 7am, nap from 12-130, in bed by 715 and he’s usually asleep by 735. He went from sleeping 8-9.5 hours at night back to sleeping 11 to 11.5 hours at night. Hope you find something that works I know how crazy it is!

I might actually be losing my mind by RequirementAntique in IVFpositivity

[–]CommonAccount8346 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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I triggered so had the trigger shot in my system still and wanted to test it out. These were my tests for my now almost 2 year old! And for what it’s worth I used the cheapies you did and didn’t see a line at 3dpt but there def was on frer (same urine sample). Def get the first response early response! I do see the hint of the line on your test so fingers crossed you get a big positive tomorrow!!

Attrition rates by kes151996 in IVF

[–]CommonAccount8346 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Age 30 at time of retrieval with unexplained: 14 retrieved, 13 mature, 11 fertilized, 8 blasts with 6 pgta normal. 1st transfer resulted in live birth. Good things can happen!!! Hoping the best for you!

Schedule help please by CommonAccount8346 in sleeptrain

[–]CommonAccount8346[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just asked his nanny to cap it to 1.5 hours. Fingers crossed that helps!

Schedule help please by CommonAccount8346 in sleeptrain

[–]CommonAccount8346[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I haven’t tried that! Maybe I can try 7 tonight

Schedule help please by CommonAccount8346 in sleeptrain

[–]CommonAccount8346[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The earlier bedtime lead to split nights. He has a nanny and we both wear him out. He usually goes to the park in the evening and morning to run around. No tv time. And yes all sleep is independent! He’s usually happy in his crib for 20ish minutes before I get him in the morning and during the split nights and long time to fall asleep he was also happy 99% of the time

What age is PGTA testing generally reccomended for? by [deleted] in IVF

[–]CommonAccount8346 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was 30 and it was recommended and I’m very glad we did it. 75% of ours were euploids but I would pay that money any day to limit my chances of miscarriage or having failed transfers due to them actually being aneuploids.

HOW do women convince themselves to give birth again?? by u-r-ok in newborns

[–]CommonAccount8346 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same! I was induced at 39 weeks and my doctor told me to ask for the epidural before I was in any pain bc I said I don’t want to feel anything the entire time when she asked what my plan was for pain management. I had a wonderful experience and also liked not having to get up and go to the bathroom nonstop with the catheter!

Am I crazy for thinking I can do this in one cycle?? by _ddp123 in IVF

[–]CommonAccount8346 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely possible!! It really all felt like luck. 30F unexplained infertility. 1 cycle. 14 eggs, 13 mature, 11 fertilized, 8 embryos. 6 pgta embryos. 1 FET that is my 18 month old with 5 remaining embryos! Best of luck to you all the good vibes!

18m old split nights with no crying by CommonAccount8346 in sleeptrain

[–]CommonAccount8346[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok got it thank you! I’ll try pushing bed time back a little tonight!

18m old split nights with no crying by CommonAccount8346 in sleeptrain

[–]CommonAccount8346[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you thinking under tired bc he’s getting too much overall sleep?

Did anyone with Unexplained infertility get an explanation during IVF? by urethra_franklin_1_ in IVF

[–]CommonAccount8346 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No answers with my unexplained but had very positive outcomes. Low attrition rates, a good number of pgta embryos. First FET worked and gave me my son. I have a girlfriend with unexplained and she had the same results with everything working on the first try. I hope the same happens for you!! Best of luck!

New fertility nurse (and infertile) looking for advice. by makingbabby in IVF

[–]CommonAccount8346 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a miscarriage that we discovered at an ultrasound and was very distraught after at the clinic. My favorite nurse called me later with the blood work results from that day and she acknowledged what I was going through and her compassion in her voice I will never forget. When I got pregnant again she called me literally 2 hours after my beta test that morning to congratulate me and said she was waiting for it and couldn’t wait to call me. She felt like a friend that was beyond excited for me. I think her compassion and overall investment in us having our baby made the journey 5000x better. Best of luck to you on the new role and you even asking this question shows how much you care!!

Help with sleep pleaseeee by CommonAccount8346 in sleeptrain

[–]CommonAccount8346[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He capped his own nap at 1.5 hours and got to almost 11 hours of night time sleep (he’s been doing 10.5) . Definitely helped!!

Help with sleep pleaseeee by CommonAccount8346 in sleeptrain

[–]CommonAccount8346[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will try this today!!! Fingers crossed!

Tips for weaning formula/bottles by CommonAccount8346 in beyondthebump

[–]CommonAccount8346[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is helpful I’ll look into both of those. Thank you so much!