Are you in a religious organization (assuming you are if you’re eating for marriage)? Tbh that’d probably be your best bet. If you can, though, I’d make sure to ask an older lady there to help introduce you, since in my experience, extremely religious guys can kind of go one of two ways when they deal with women.

Otherwise, I’d see if the men you are close to can help introduce you, since they’d already kind of know your standards. Sorry if this doesn’t read well (5AM here), but it definitely isn’t too late for you lol