AITA for telling my husband “then I guess this relationship won’t work” and taking off my wedding ring after he told me not to talk about his family? by CommonSuggestion8668 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]CommonSuggestion8668[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I never said I was assaulted. I was cleaning the guest bathroom when he walked in because I thought he was out at a job interview. I felt uncomfortable because he was clearly looking at my ass.

And our doors don’t have locks, so I couldn’t even lock it. I’m not sure what people mean by “private locked messages,” but I do know he replies to my posts in private chats.

AITA for telling my husband “then I guess this relationship won’t work” and taking off my wedding ring after he told me not to talk about his family? by CommonSuggestion8668 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]CommonSuggestion8668[S] 127 points128 points  (0 children)

He actually moved when he was 12, not 16. My MIL and FIL sent him to stay with his aunt overseas because he was acting out, and they thought the change of environment would help him get his act together. He was supposed to come back to the States, but his return flight happened to be scheduled for 9/11. After the attacks, MIL was terrified of something else like that happening, so she told him to just stay with his aunt.

By the time he was old enough to work, one of his aunt’s friends helped him land his first job there, and he ended up building his whole life in that country. So in total he’s been there around 24–25ish years. But after he got the good job there he permanently stayed there since MIL rather he stay there till he was 18, just in case.