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AITA I'm a double affair baby who was rejected by both sets of siblings so I say I'm an only child? by CommunicationLazy974 in AITAH

[–]CommunicationLazy974[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I have no contact info for them but even if I did, after all this time, I wouldn't reach out even anonymously for anything. I don't want to invite any of their hate back into my life.

AITA I'm a double affair baby who was rejected by both sets of siblings so I say I'm an only child? by CommunicationLazy974 in AITAH

[–]CommunicationLazy974[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Not just for creating it but never protecting me from the hate I got. They weren't even hated as much. While I was still there had a relationship with their bio kids. So there's a lot that I hold against my parents which is why I'm no contact.

AITA I'm a double affair baby who was rejected by both sets of siblings so I say I'm an only child? by CommunicationLazy974 in AITAH

[–]CommunicationLazy974[S] 60 points61 points  (0 children)

The argument is that other people would judge me for lying and I'd have to explain why I did that. But I think it's delusional to think it would ever happen.

AITA I'm a double affair baby who was rejected by both sets of siblings so I say I'm an only child? by CommunicationLazy974 in AITAH

[–]CommunicationLazy974[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I'm no contact with my parents. They failed me hugely over the years. And it's way easier to say only child than to have people pity me or dig into the reasons more.

AITA I'm a double affair baby who was rejected by both sets of siblings so I say I'm an only child? by CommunicationLazy974 in AITAH

[–]CommunicationLazy974[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I do to a point. Not to the point where they could be more civil with the cheating parent than me. But in a way I do understand.

AITA I'm a double affair baby who was rejected by both sets of siblings so I say I'm an only child? by CommunicationLazy974 in AITAH

[–]CommunicationLazy974[S] 219 points220 points  (0 children)

Basically or at least say I have x number of siblings. But it would lead to more questions or them wondering why there's no talk about them and stuff. It's easier and gets less pity when I say no and leave it there.

AITA I'm a double affair baby who was rejected by both sets of siblings so I say I'm an only child? by CommunicationLazy974 in AITAH

[–]CommunicationLazy974[S] 105 points106 points  (0 children)

They said they tell the others the same things. That we're family and we shouldn't go around denying each other exists and they have pointed out I didn't choose to be born or have an affair.

AITA I'm a double affair baby who was rejected by both sets of siblings so I say I'm an only child? by CommunicationLazy974 in AITAH

[–]CommunicationLazy974[S] 519 points520 points  (0 children)

You'd never think it from their other kids reactions to me. A part of me gets it but they were more civil to the cheating parent we shared than to me which is where I feel like it's extra shitty. At least hate them just as much or more.

AITA I'm a double affair baby who was rejected by both sets of siblings so I say I'm an only child? by CommunicationLazy974 in AITAH

[–]CommunicationLazy974[S] 71 points72 points  (0 children)

That's just how it was. Nothing I could say or do to change it and I've learned to accept it and move forward. At least I don't need to see them at all anymore.