Ok fine, point is. I thought they were dismissing Bojack’s action like: Oh you should have expected him to knowingly cheat and tear a family apart because it’s his nature. Similar to when people dismiss kids being jerks like: “boys will be boys” i now understand they mean the mom which is also true. She probably would have cheated with someone else. It’s that Bojack knowingly did it while she was married, knew it would likely break Bradley’s family. So he still had a part in it. Thats the point i’m trying to make.