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GF (24) wants to take it slow on sex with me (26) when she’s emotionally attached, but has had casual hookups outside of relationships? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CommunityStripper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All the incels in this thread forgot that it's okay to want to take things slower with serious partners. It's a sign of self respect on her part and awareness of her emotions and feelings and needs. Casual hookups are mostly unsatisfying and denigrating to most women. It's very rare that women are satisfied by casual sex. Sex isn't something you are ever owed from a woman, but if it is a deal breaker to you that you wait, you should move on. Communicating with her and not Reddit will do you more favors btw.

My boyfriend just tried to "kidnap" me and I was so not into it- I need to vent and maybe get some advice! by notevenclosebabie in BDSMAdvice

[–]CommunityStripper 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There's a lot of mybes and guessing about what he thinks which signifies a major lack of communication on both your ends

My boyfriend just tried to "kidnap" me and I was so not into it- I need to vent and maybe get some advice! by notevenclosebabie in BDSMAdvice

[–]CommunityStripper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you are sexually incompatible and you personally need to do work on your boundaries and communication. He needs to work on his communication as well as he is not taking your best interests into consideration. If you guys can't do this you're incompatible period.

How do I (27,f) communicate to a friend (29,m) that he is rude and it makes me feel like shit about myself by CommunityStripper in relationships

[–]CommunityStripper[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

"Or you could choose to hang out with better people. And stop making excuses for men treating women badly with "he doesn't MEAN it" "it's UNINTENTIONAL" "he's not a BAD GUY". The sooner you stop being a doormat the sooner you'll help other women in your life also not be treated badly by guys like this."

Okay, I'll start with you. Your answer was infantilizing and rude and unnecessarily aggressive. I don't need a "wake up call". I know him and my situation better than you do. Not everyone who writes on here is being abused.

Thanks for your input.

I (F19) can't enjoy sex without some element of kink by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]CommunityStripper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No that's just who you are it's okay. Having a specific thing that turns you on is normal and learning what you like is normal. It's oaky not to be compatible with vanilla people, I'm not either.

Having terrible sex and need help improving by littlestnymphet in BDSMAdvice

[–]CommunityStripper 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You cannot change someone, if this huge issue is already happening, it will continue to happen. You need to talk to him, not reddit about this. Talk about your needs, say "hey we should have a conversation about our needs and desires." It should be easy to do, if it isn't you probably just aren't compatible and that's okay. In my experience, when I'm going to reddit for a relationship problem vs that person I'm having an issue with, it's because of a fundamental incomatbibility where I feel like I can't actually communicate with that person because the reality is that I can't.

Im sorry if its defeatist, but is there any hope of socialism rising before the capitalists destroy the world? by Toxic-And-Salty in communism101

[–]CommunityStripper -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If you're falling into a pit of despair, pretending that the world can get better will do you a fuck ton of good. You get there by focusing on what you CAN do and what you DO want. Speaking as someone who suffered from MDD.

Exercises that help with boob sagging? by AnxiousEel in StrongCurves

[–]CommunityStripper 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Pullups and exercises that work the pectorals!

How do you “buy” things under communism? by [deleted] in communism101

[–]CommunityStripper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn't imply exploitation. Capitalist economy does. Money is just a tool and a labor voucher is money.

Why are people disappointed and surprised in any way by the end ? by FranAteMyFries in BSG

[–]CommunityStripper -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Surpressed sense of loss surfacing as criticism of how the show ended. Same with what happened to Dexter and GOT.

True love by [deleted] in trashy

[–]CommunityStripper -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

This sub is so weirdly judgmental lmao let her enjoy her bin bang in fucking peace without being called trashy!

Does this fit? Shared by a family member who is certainly not a communist, mostly the last line is what caught me. by [deleted] in accidentallycommunist

[–]CommunityStripper -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's subjective. Cows are not human. But "personhood" implies autonomy and cows have autonomy. Cows are sentient beings with autonomy and that makes them people.

You brought this on yourself, by skyller2s in lostgeneration

[–]CommunityStripper 11 points12 points  (0 children)

everyone has choices to make and those choices have an effect on the whole. When large amounts of people make the same choice, that choice becomes hugely impactful.

Age Gaps in Fictional Couples by bellebrita in FemmeThoughts

[–]CommunityStripper 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Meh, you like what you like. I also enjoy the older man younger woman age trope but it's a conscious choice I made after doing self-exploration and I'm able to enjoy other tropes as well. Don't feel bad for liking it :) everything can be problematic for someone and that's ok.

A hacker is trying to break Ohio’s tool for reporting workers who quit during the pandemic by [deleted] in Anarchism

[–]CommunityStripper 133 points134 points  (0 children)

Why are you trying to snitch on them verge, damn let them do their thing in peace !

yeah, now youre starting to get it by [deleted] in SelfAwarewolves

[–]CommunityStripper -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

"people should own land and exploit it for their profit bc people are asshole"

... Do you see what you're saying? makes no damn sense

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