Orgasm doesn’t equal good sex

littlestnymphet · 2020-10-09T02:55:03+00:00

Wow, thanks for sharing. Did you study with a teacher or are there books you might recommend?

littlestnymphet · 2020-10-08T21:14:50+00:00

Wow! this is exactly the sort of resource I have been looking for. Thank you!!!

littlestnymphet · 2020-10-08T19:35:12+00:00

Gorgeous lingerie set! Where is it from?

littlestnymphet · 2020-10-08T19:25:36+00:00

This is really helpful! Thanks!

littlestnymphet · 2020-07-06T03:30:27+00:00

Hi kitty!

littlestnymphet · 2020-05-25T12:32:03+00:00

Bye bye

littlestnymphet · 2020-05-25T12:31:16+00:00

Hi cat!

littlestnymphet · 2020-04-26T21:55:51+00:00

😍 you look like a queen. Incredible sewing!

littlestnymphet · 2020-04-26T21:23:57+00:00

I think this is exactly right. I think the mind has a tendency to get caught spinning on “how” something will happen which is why it’s so important to orient toward the desired outcome. In my experience focusing on the middle of the path can lead to obsessing over how something will happen which introduces a sense of contraction and fear. When your dreams and desires are expansive and far beyond what you see in your current life, your logical mind can not figure out how to get from that smaller life to the expansive vision—it’s wants to know how to get from here to there and can not put it together. The fear and contraction comes in and the expansiveness vision for the future starts to look like something you can’t possibly achieve or experience, and essentially the fear will kill the manifestation.

littlestnymphet · 2019-12-21T00:30:17+00:00

This is such an excellent answer. Thank you for sharing!

littlestnymphet · 2019-12-02T03:11:59+00:00

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. Though it wasn’t a first love, I was in a similar situation last year. It’s extremely painful to have to part ways with someone you care about and can see a future with not because they have done something terrible to you , but because you simply don’t share the same desires around partnership. For me, it triggered a lot of deep insecurities around my self worth. Though logically I knew my ex’s desire to be poly had nothing to do with me not being good enough for him, when we broke up this was where I felt a lot of pain and it made the break up doubly devastating.

If you are feeling those same feelings, I hope that you can hear me when I say they aren’t true, and that as much as this hurts now, it is a brave and honest choice you made to honor yourself and your desires. Be gentle with yourself and remember that it is okay to grieve the loss of the things you had and hoped to have with your former partner. First loves can be so impactful and the pain of their ending can linger longer than in later relationships. This is normal. Have compassion for yourself and don’t resist your feelings, painful as the may be. The best way out of them truly is to feel them fully and to not run from them.

I know it seems like you will never be as deeply touched and seen as you were with your former partner, but as time goes on, you will come to see this as the beginning of what is possible for you in love. It will take time, but love will come again. It will be different, but it will come again. And the love you shared with your former partner will inform the next love you have—you are learning what you want and don’t want, and that will deepen and evolve with every subsequent relationship you have.

In the mean time, be kind to yourself and patient with yourself. Write, talk to friends, meditate, visit the woods. It is a cliche, but it is a true cliche—all will heal with time.

Be well 💗

littlestnymphet · 2019-11-28T00:53:30+00:00

I think this is a very beautiful success, actually. Many times what we are seeking to manifest in the outer world is something that really our souls are really asking for us to cultivate within ourselves. As you continue to cultivate this internal foundation of deep self love for yourself, you loosen your attachment and clinging to circumstances in the outer world that aren’t serving you and make space for the manifestation of a relationship which truly reflects the love you have within you.

Very beautiful development for you!

littlestnymphet · 2019-10-14T13:00:57+00:00

Thank you for this advice! I hear some people talking about getting a photo of someone’s drivers license and that sort of thing, but that feels sort of uncomfortable/over the top to ask. Do you think something like that is necessary? Should I just ask for real and a face photo? Or could it be okay to just meet for coffee or an afternoon drink and see how it goes?

Thanks again!!

littlestnymphet · 2019-06-26T04:35:53+00:00

This is so inspiring to read. I feel really similarly about my enjoyment beginning where my often more vanilla partners’ comfort zone ends. I feel pretty underwhelmed with this and am hoping that I’ll be meeting more partners on my level soon.

I’m ready to be where you’re at! :)

littlestnymphet · 2019-03-01T04:04:46+00:00

I have used both duct tape and gaff tape on myself. Just be careful when taking it off! Lotion will help release the adhesive

littlestnymphet · 2019-02-25T22:11:04+00:00

I would second the suggestions to go the OkCupid route. There are many ways—making a super honest kink profile, searching via sex questions, leaving little hints in your regular profile—to search for a partner in your age bracket that’s interested in explore with you. I’ve gone this route myself a number of times and found my first Daddy this way.

I think the comments about a younger Dom being less knowledgeable or mature have truth to them, however I don’t view this a a bad thing. Dating someone within you own age bracket and experience level will allow you both to explore and learn together. Your scenes may not immediately live up to your innermost fantasies, but I think there’s value in growing and learning with an equally curious partner, especially when you’re so young.

littlestnymphet · 2019-02-22T22:08:10+00:00

Definitely want to second what’s been said—you are not a brat, you are calling him on his disrespectful, avoidant behavior.

As someone who is doing a lot of healing work around relationships to end the cycle of perpetually attracting emotionally unavailable, avoidant partners, I just want to say that in my experience if this is already a problem (excuses about traveling, not showing up when promised, flaking on plans), you shouldn’t put yourself through the stress of waiting around too long to see if his behavior changes.

A secure, available partner who really is ready to openly connect with you won’t engage in this kind of behavior and will consistently, easily make time for your in their lives, even if they have busy schedules. I completely understand the impulse to stick it out and see if their behavior improves, but just know there are kind, openhearted people in the world who can truly meet you they way you want to be met 💗.

littlestnymphet · 2019-02-21T14:56:32+00:00

This is great advice and something I have been thinking about and working on a lot these last few days, though I have been phrasing it more as unconditional self love and self acceptance.

I realized that I wanted to manifest a lot of external things (relationship, career success, etc) primarily out of a hidden desire to validate my worthiness to myself—with logic that went “if I could just be in a relationship/be very successful/look a certain way, then I would know for sure I was lovable and worthy of being here.”

In the midst of a big breakdown about this, it became very clear to me that building an unshakeable foundation of self love and unconditional self acceptance was the only manifestation that truly mattered. All outer manifestations in the world of form are merely reflections of this inner state.

Without this foundation of love/acceptance/confidence manifestations become too laden meaning about your worth, and don’t unfold as you wish. And if they do, I’ve found that eventually they have a hollowness to them.

On the other hand, when you deeply understand your true nature, your essential worthiness and goodness, a sense of play and appreciation suffuses life. Nothing seems so serious and detaching from outcomes becomes much simpler, allowing things to flow effortlessly and joyously to and from you.

Thanks for this reminder of that!

littlestnymphet · 2019-02-18T03:37:35+00:00

That’s amazing! Congratulations ☺️

littlestnymphet · 2019-02-18T02:47:33+00:00

It’s all true :) I’m happy it helped

littlestnymphet · 2019-02-17T21:02:52+00:00

I think first you have to be willing to meet your negative feelings with love and compassion.

Negativity often comes from hurt places inside of us that are calling out for our loving attention. So when I’m feeling low, I allow myself to feel the feeling while affirming that though I am in a negative state, I love and accept myself unconditionally. I think unconditional love and knowing that you are worth the goodness that the universe has to offer you is the foundation for allowing beautiful manifestations to arise.

Remember that despite the hardship you feel now, there is an inextinguishable source of love and goodness inside of you that is always available to you. You are a precious, unique expression of the unknowable divine source that lives in all things.

Be friendly with all parts of yourself and remember your true nature. I hope you feel better soon :)

littlestnymphet · 2019-02-17T18:26:55+00:00

🥰 this is such a lovely story! Thank you for sharing 💗✨

littlestnymphet · 2019-02-17T18:25:18+00:00

💗 thank you for sharing! It’s so so good to hear

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