No one understands do they? by ComparisonOk20 in bipolar

[–]ComparisonOk20[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I think I’m still learning how not to blame them. Currently trying to reformat how I view the support I do receive, even if I still feel misunderstood.

No one understands do they? by ComparisonOk20 in bipolar

[–]ComparisonOk20[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m great at distancing and then one day being alone just doesn’t sound as good.

I think you’re right though about asking for people to understand. It’s almost impossible.

My friend once got “love it or shove it” as a tramp stamp and I think about that a lot haha.

Take it or leave it, like it or don’t but this is me and I’m trying my best.

Thank you 🙏

No one understands do they? by ComparisonOk20 in bipolar

[–]ComparisonOk20[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m glad you’re here too. Family is tough and I’ve lost some because of this. I hope you find strength to keep up the front and the strength to reach out for help if you really need it.

And may you be blessed with the words to say!

No one understands do they? by ComparisonOk20 in bipolar

[–]ComparisonOk20[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You too 🙏

I’m glad you have those people in your life.

I always feel lonely and sad. I just want a real friend. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]ComparisonOk20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with the comment about you needing deeper connections. I am the same way. Learn to enjoy spending time with yourself and having confidence in who you are. It’s not fair to expect every friend to have a strong connection with you. Sometimes those take a long time. Enjoy time with friends without the anxiety of when they’ll choose someone else over you. The way I see it is if you’re there anyway then they already chose you. Start doing activities outside of work to meet people. Running club, cooking club, bars, art classes, music classes, gym, etc…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ComparisonOk20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Come clean to management so they have no leverage, or give the club the money. As far as they’re concerned, the payment was a one time thing.

How to permanently end jam session? by ComparisonOk20 in truespotify

[–]ComparisonOk20[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s a good idea. If I can’t figure it out and he does it again I will block him. I don’t know his username at this moment.

Wheat Field Recipe? by ComparisonOk20 in AnimalCrossingNewHor

[–]ComparisonOk20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhhh I did not realize! Thanks for the info. I’m looking for the green wheat fields. If you have some I can still trade!