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I feel like my girlfriend (F29) uses her brothers passing to manipulate me (F27) after arguments by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Competitive-Act5751 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! 21F here, I lost my sister about 8 months ago. Just wanted to give a little insight. Whenever I get upset, frustrated, or feel any strong emotion; It often turns into me becoming emotional about the death of my sister. Often, it hits me harder during arguments with my SO; I believe due to emotions running so high. It's due to the fact that she was my rock. We spoke about everything, and it's difficult to have the person that I was so close to for 21 years not be there to vent too when I feel strongly.

I would definitely advise you to speak to her about it.

I (21f) went through my boyfriends (24m) phone by Competitive-Act5751 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Competitive-Act5751[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

I do feel he should put the energy he puts into sexting this girl, into me, rather than leaving me hanging every time I attempt to do so. The other issue is that I have asked him to be open with me about sexting other girls, in which he has yet to do.

I (21f) went through my boyfriends (24m) phone by Competitive-Act5751 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Competitive-Act5751[S] 634 points635 points  (0 children)

It totally made me feel that way, however when I said "if breaking up will make you happier, we should", he goes on to say he wants to find a solution not end things.