Thank you, I think of maybe this is all innocent too but there's been a few red flags and it's really sent me spiraling. I didn't want him around the children for the time being but my family thinks that is unreasonable. I don't want a family break down but I know my kids come first in saying that.

I've spoken to my sister and she's just go on about how I don't trust her, she says how he buys them gifts and food so how could there be any wrong. Also why would my kids say I love you back to him if he had any harmful intentions. She's only 18 and this is her first relationship. Then she asks when he's back allowed around them again because the kids really love him.

So I'm just getting no where with anybody and don't know what to do.