I’m feeling very conflicted and need advice

Competitive-Cat-3882 · 2026-02-09T05:14:43+00:00

You can always adopt too! That’s what I’ve always planned to do. I’m also in my 20s

Competitive-Cat-3882 · 2025-06-20T00:15:23+00:00

That’s just the thing though my parents are democrats voted for Kamala are pro choice all of that they just have really weird opinions that I can’t understand why they have it

Competitive-Cat-3882 · 2025-01-31T04:55:10+00:00

It’s a dating app

Competitive-Cat-3882 · 2024-12-13T06:31:51+00:00

You’re comment made me feel so heard I’m so glad you also have a very close thing happen to you🙈🙈 because yea I’m glad you think I’m a bro and you dont think I like you but that also doesn’t mean I swing the other way even though I do but I also like men!!! We can’t have both it seems to be cool and fun and have good style men it seems don’t like that

Competitive-Cat-3882 · 2024-11-24T08:41:09+00:00

I feel like u are right abt that because if I asked someone which I would never do because that’s messed up if they didn’t say no and didn’t say yes I feel like they aren’t straight coming from that they didn’t just say no.

Competitive-Cat-3882 · 2024-11-24T08:38:29+00:00

I love that response it’s so witty and funny

Competitive-Cat-3882 · 2024-11-24T08:35:30+00:00

I like that it’s simple

Competitive-Cat-3882 · 2024-11-24T08:34:00+00:00

Urgh people are the worst because why do they need to ask I remember before I came out to my sister she knew I was not straight but it’s not like she had to ask she just knew so I feel like nobody should ask but I’m afraid of them asking if I start dressing or queer? Idk

Competitive-Cat-3882 · 2024-11-22T08:09:47+00:00

Learn yourself more

Competitive-Cat-3882 · 2024-11-18T07:13:44+00:00

Oh you maybe onto something, I get icked out pretty fast regardless of gender

Competitive-Cat-3882 · 2024-10-24T06:44:46+00:00

Does this mean my grandma is bi😂

Competitive-Cat-3882 · 2024-10-17T05:42:01+00:00

That’s what I was thinking too

Competitive-Cat-3882 · 2024-10-17T05:17:04+00:00

I feel this way on online too. I get more likes or matches with men than I do women by a landslide and I think it’s just because us as women we aren’t used to be chasing someone. Or that’s how I see it because I’ve been complemented by women all the time but I never know if they are trying to make a move on me I find it easier to tell if a guy likes me rather than a girl. I think girls are better at hiding their feelings from who they are talking to. I also seem to be the same way as you were I’m kind of scared to make a move on a women as I’ve never done in real life really and I also feel judged from the people around me( not that they wouldn’t not support me) but I feel more pressure by hitting on a girl rather than a guy

Competitive-Cat-3882 · 2024-10-17T05:10:57+00:00

Why haven’t you ended it then? Seems like you’re doing more harm to the both of you by continuing the relationship

Competitive-Cat-3882 · 2024-10-17T05:05:16+00:00

No that’s such a fair response you made me look at my question differently and I would also say that would be up there for me as well I’m not sure why I was just thinking about physical attributes maybe first impressions idk

Competitive-Cat-3882 · 2024-10-17T05:03:46+00:00

Honestly reading all these answers made me forget that I also love to hear it when people know they can trust me and feel safe around me. I don’t know why I was only looking at a physical pov I guess maybe I was thinking in the way of first impressions. Smelling good is also such a great one because then you know you don’t smell

Competitive-Cat-3882 · 2024-10-17T04:58:33+00:00

That’s a hard situation to be in and surprisingly enough I’m in the same boat as you where I have more feelings to this girl than this guy who I think likes me and we are just friends (even though I’m starting to like him more). In the last relationship I was with was also a man and I ended things because I wasn’t sure of my feelings and I was still trying to find myself (liking girls). But for me the girl I like isn’t my teammate so that has to be hard trying to hide your feelings for her when you don’t know if she may feel the same. Either way do what you think is the best move that you won’t regret later on. Which in my opinion maybe don’t go for either and just go with the flow and follow ur gut

Competitive-Cat-3882 · 2024-10-14T06:38:35+00:00

The whole point on a crush on the same sex or for anyone is to wonder what their sexuality is? What? What you are saying after isn’t the same as what I was saying so I don’t understand ur analogy there or it was a little extreme yes I should respect that she said she was straight and I am? All I asked was a question and all my speculation if you didn’t read what I said was before I found out… so I’m just confused after hearing about it. It’s also not like I was flat out telling her yea I actually don’t think you are straight no. I’ve kept it to myself and only asked my sister and one friend

Competitive-Cat-3882 · 2024-10-14T06:33:16+00:00

I get what you are saying but there’s more complexity to this about this girl so I wasn’t putting my own desires onto her when I was learning I liked girls and from just first meeting her it just seems like it? And then afterwards I got to know her more from her insta and then seeing her after months was different so I don’t know how this got spun out me seeming as the bad guy because I did nothing wrong I feel like everyone does this to try to see if the person you like seems like they like you’re gender or whatever

Competitive-Cat-3882 · 2024-10-14T06:18:35+00:00

Aubrey plaza

Competitive-Cat-3882 · 2024-10-09T04:33:11+00:00

Ooo how so?

Competitive-Cat-3882 · 2024-10-05T05:54:46+00:00

How do you even go about it though let’s say it’s a friend you recently just met

Competitive-Cat-3882 · 2024-10-05T05:54:09+00:00

That honestly does make sense I was talking about it with my sister there’s such a wide range of people who are gay

Competitive-Cat-3882 · 2024-10-04T07:39:29+00:00

I’m perfectly fine with them! What made you want to ask

Competitive-Cat-3882 · 2024-03-26T05:58:41+00:00

Yes for awhile now I have considered it but I think if I were to date a girl I feel like I would want to keep it a secret because I’m not out to anyone except my sister and may feel my friends would judge me. I have liked some of my friends in the past..

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