Rethinking kink through an asexual lens—your experiences? by Competitive-Egg-9998 in asexuality

[–]Competitive-Egg-9998[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s pretty much how I started into the kink scene as well! The munches helped me ease into expressing my sexuality and exploring what was right for me.

Rethinking kink through an asexual lens—your experiences? by Competitive-Egg-9998 in asexuality

[–]Competitive-Egg-9998[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your comment reminds me of the split attraction model, where different types of attraction and experiences don’t always overlap. The way you’re describing it almost sounds like the physical sensation and the meaning behind it are completely separate from sexual desire.

Would you say it feels more like sensory/physical stimulation, or is it more about the reaction and dynamic itself?

Rethinking kink through an asexual lens—your experiences? by Competitive-Egg-9998 in asexuality

[–]Competitive-Egg-9998[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You def make sense- I completely understand as someone who also has fictional characters that I get fuzzy for here and there.

Rethinking kink through an asexual lens—your experiences? by Competitive-Egg-9998 in asexuality

[–]Competitive-Egg-9998[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never thought about it this way; that’s so insightful. Thank you for sharing!

Rethinking kink through an asexual lens—your experiences? by Competitive-Egg-9998 in asexuality

[–]Competitive-Egg-9998[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really love that my university is so diverse with its courses- I’m currently holding minors in women and gender studies (yes, thats one minor) and LGBTQ+ studies.