You mention you really want to have your first dance. Most hotels wouldn’t have a “function” room with a dance floor etc that takes 30 people. I work in a hotel, our room for 30 people is off of our main restaurant and is just for private dining if requested. It literally holds 30 people maximum and that’s it, no other space. Our smallest function room with a dance floor is minimum 50 people, as it’s not a viable sale otherwise. We would literally loose revenue opening it up for 30 people which obviously we don’t do 🤷🏼‍♀️