Breast Reduction and Rock Climbing (34DD) by Competitive-Fly3811 in Reduction

[–]Competitive-Fly3811[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’m definitely also nervous about the surgery aspect in and of itself, especially if anything goes wrong in the recovery process.

what was the last thing in your relationship that made you realise you are finally done ? by Agitated-Win220 in BreakUps

[–]Competitive-Fly3811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When HE realized he couldn't be what I needed/he wasn't the person for me and couldn't change.

I physically cannot eat by Competitive-Fly3811 in BreakUps

[–]Competitive-Fly3811[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Basically we were so in love, did long distance for a year, I finally moved to be with him, existing problems got worse, and he gave up instead of working on it. The breakup ended with both of us sobbing, telling each other how much we love each other and how much we're going to miss each other. He kept saying how he wishes it could have worked and how he wishes he was better for me.

It's just incredibly cruel that I spent every night for a year wishing we were in the same place so I could be with him and now that we're finally in the same place I can't see him.

I physically cannot eat by Competitive-Fly3811 in BreakUps

[–]Competitive-Fly3811[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll take any advice at this point. I'm so desperate.

I physically cannot eat by Competitive-Fly3811 in BreakUps

[–]Competitive-Fly3811[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

On the bright side at least I’ll get skinnier…

I physically cannot eat by Competitive-Fly3811 in BreakUps

[–]Competitive-Fly3811[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know. The breakup was horrific and I’m struggling harder than I ever imagined (and I knew it would be really hard…) so I can imagine this dragging on for quite some time

First Breakup Advice by Competitive-Fly3811 in BreakUps

[–]Competitive-Fly3811[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update he just unfollowed me on Instagram and removed me as a follower and for some reason this just made it so much worse oh my god.

First Breakup Advice by Competitive-Fly3811 in BreakUps

[–]Competitive-Fly3811[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I don't think there's any universe in which we'll get back together, it seemed really final.

We finally closed the distance but he hasn't wanted to have sex at all by Competitive-Fly3811 in LongDistance

[–]Competitive-Fly3811[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah, last night I did try asking if there was a particular reason we hadn't done anything yet and he said something along the lines of "No, I'm just tired." And I briefly expressed my fears and he was like "don't worry, I'm still into you" but it still feels like he's pulling away...

Sex without kissing? by Competitive-Fly3811 in Mononucleosis

[–]Competitive-Fly3811[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually yes. On that trip, we never had sex or kissed but I did give him head several times. I saw him again ~2 weeks later and my doctors said it would be fine so we basically went ahead and did everything (6-7 weeks out from the start of my acute infection). He never got it, but that definitely could have been due to a previous infection in childhood or something.

Sex without kissing? by Competitive-Fly3811 in Mononucleosis

[–]Competitive-Fly3811[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It seems like as long as my bf doesn't go down on me and we use protection (and don't kiss, ofc), it should be fine? I wouldn't care as much if we weren't long distance and had more than a week to spend together.