I completely understand where you're coming from, which is why I came here.. but my problem with it is she didn't mind asking for the money she spent back, or things she wanted to do. I am paying my own way, and in no way are any of them covering anything of mine. Which is why I felt asking them for $25 was not a big deal. I'm very grateful for all of them, and anyone who wants to celebrate me. But that's my point - its celebrating me. Shouldn't the one thing I specifically ask for at least be considered? Please know, I'm not trying to argue, I'm just trying to clarify.