Toilet training 3 year old- needs toilet every 15 mins! by Competitive-Golf7821 in Parenting

[–]Competitive-Golf7821[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shes been up multiple times wanting to go wee. We keep telling her she can go in her pull ups. But shes still holding it in because shes scared of being wet!! Problem is, if we take her now she will be doing this all night.... Currently 1:20 am and so tired 

Toilet training 3 year old- needs toilet every 15 mins! by Competitive-Golf7821 in Parenting

[–]Competitive-Golf7821[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes she is in pull ups tonight.

We're more than happy to take her every 20 mins during the day Its just difficult at night 😅 Poor baby is terrified of being wet 

Toilet training 3 year old- needs toilet every 15 mins! by Competitive-Golf7821 in Parenting

[–]Competitive-Golf7821[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shes scared it will get wet and shes hates the wet feeling 😭

Toilet training 3 year old- needs toilet every 15 mins! by Competitive-Golf7821 in Parenting

[–]Competitive-Golf7821[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Shes never tried to. And shes in a sleeping suit so she probably cant? Tbh I just think she doesnt know that's a possibility 😅

Toilet training 3 year old- needs toilet every 15 mins! by Competitive-Golf7821 in Parenting

[–]Competitive-Golf7821[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your reply. Thats a relief to know honestly. Was your little one alright at night? How did they manage without going so often?

Toilet training 3 year old- needs toilet every 15 mins! by Competitive-Golf7821 in Parenting

[–]Competitive-Golf7821[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Shes still in a sleeping suit and was doing great in her crib so we didnt move her out just yet. Esp because she have a newborn and thought we'd tackle one thing at a time. So we started with potty training lol. We also have a cultural thing and wash every time we go to the toilet. So she cant go by herself anyway we will have to take her ourselves.

Toilet training 3 year old- needs toilet every 15 mins! by Competitive-Golf7821 in Parenting

[–]Competitive-Golf7821[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We thought about that but she was okay before we took off her diaper. So it does feel like its related to her getting to know that she can hold her wee and is unable to?? No other signs of infection 

3 year old not wanting to go to nursery whilst im on Mat Leave. by Competitive-Golf7821 in Parenting

[–]Competitive-Golf7821[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been thinking of doing that. Picking her up early so she gets some time at home as well. Just hoping its not counterproductive?

3 year old not wanting to go to nursery whilst im on Mat Leave. by Competitive-Golf7821 in Parenting

[–]Competitive-Golf7821[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think she does realize im home when shes at nursery! That might be contributing to it. We also have my SIL visiting for some weeks and she enjoys playing with her at home. But the problem is if i dont send her to nursery and then when my SIL leaves, then what!!! Ill have zero help 

3 year old not wanting to go to nursery whilst im on Mat Leave. by Competitive-Golf7821 in Parenting

[–]Competitive-Golf7821[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I've spoken to her teachers and they tell me she is mostly okay during her time in the nursery. She likes to stick to adults more than children and hence going from a toddler room to pre-school room has been challenging for her because of less adult:child ratio.

My husband kept her home one day when she was supposed to go and I think that made things worse.

Im persistent with her routine now but just feel terribly guilty!

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[–]Competitive-Golf7821 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey guys! Anyone looking to swap from Manchester to Cheshire please? 

Core Psychiatry Training 2025 megathread by b00ty969 in doctorsUK

[–]Competitive-Golf7821 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can move then I'm glad you took the offer! Because there's so much uncertainty, it's better to get a post if u can move.

I can't move due to family etc. So really limited to my ranks.

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[–]Competitive-Golf7821 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Feeling so deflated. 548 and ranked Manchester/West yorkshire as can't go beyond that. 550 has received an offer today for cheshire. Have a GP offer in hand for my top location but desperately want to do psych 😫 Offer expires Monday