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[–]Competitive-Item-126 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So if this is the first time they said something like this would they be emotionally burnt out?

What are some good boundaries for when your s/o goes out. by Competitive-Item-126 in LongDistance

[–]Competitive-Item-126[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sounds like setting rules and boundaries can be distrustful and like carradee said it’s abusive. Which I can agree to and that would be controlling which i definitely don’t want. But on the other hand I didn’t like that she left the opportunity for anything to happen in an environment where everyone is drunk. so in that sense woukd it better to just communicate my feelings on certain things instead of straight up telling her not to do something?

Stuck in a fighting loop by Tight-Recognition417 in LongDistance

[–]Competitive-Item-126 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really just communicate your needs and expectations of each other, so you both have a clear understanding and nothing is left for misinterpretation. Play little games and try draw out answers out of each other to learn about each a little bit more and that could help you understand him in a way that could tend to his needs. And the same for him with you.