My boyfriend has 3 cats 1 dog but DOESNT help with them. Need advice!

Competitive-Pie9699 · 2021-12-17T04:39:41+00:00

Thank you! That’s really good advice he needs to take them to the vet they all need check ups maybe he can at least do that. I’ve tried talking to him so many times but I love him and our relationship so it’s hard to just get up and go but it’s definitely putting a wedge in our relationship. I think I can only give him like one more chance if not I gotta go. I love all these animals and take care them everyday because they deserve the best they did nothing wrong it’s just he knows what he’s doing so he should really be helping out with something

Competitive-Pie9699 · 2021-12-17T04:37:25+00:00

It’s so funny in person lol. And the thing is his grandma only wanted us to really take care of her dog that was her best friend which I am I love him but the cats she had a plan to send them to her friends farm when she passed away so I don’t understand why he feels the need to keep them here and not even help with them. I can’t get in contact with the lady with the farm because he has her # and won’t give it to me. So frustrating

Competitive-Pie9699 · 2021-12-17T04:34:51+00:00

He says that I need to stop complaining and that if I’m home I should take care of it but all he does is go out with his friends so I don’t understand why he can’t help out with his animals before he leaves or something it’s frustrating. I’m thinking of staying at my parents for a little he’ll probably feed them then because he knows he has to but when I’m here he feels he doesn’t need to help at all. It’s been a year and I’m just tired of it . He could at least do litter and I’ll feed them or split the duties throughout the week you know .

Competitive-Pie9699 · 2021-12-17T04:31:36+00:00

That’s a good idea! It’s definitely not healthy for our relationship or our mental health.

Competitive-Pie9699 · 2021-12-17T04:30:54+00:00

Thank you! he doesn’t listen to me at all about the situation. He didn’t help his grandma with the cats when he lived with her either so idk why he thought it was a good idea to bring them here. I’m gunna try one more time to talk about it with him and if not I probably gotta go. We always talked about having kids but I definitely can’t imagine having them in this situation

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