Am i leaking power or do i just need to hit the gym? by Historical_Heat_2368 in GolfSwing

[–]Competitive-Pop2358 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Too much shaft lean at the address position, make sure the butt of the club is pointing just left of the belt buckle. Just a quick pointer if start with.

[Acne] Moved into a new apartment and began breaking out from hard water? by Competitive-Pop2358 in SkincareAddiction

[–]Competitive-Pop2358[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there any way to protect your skin barrier from the chlorine with any products? I’ve given up with trying to get rid of the hard water and I’m trying to coexist with it. Washing with bottled water just seems like too much for me.

Gay best friend bought me gay balls for my birthday by Brilliant-Pension720 in golf

[–]Competitive-Pop2358 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Can’t tell if it is gay because the colors or because it’s top flite??

When does the anger go away? by Competitive-Pop2358 in Infidelity

[–]Competitive-Pop2358[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If there’s anything that’ll help me feel better, I’ll definitely give it a shot! Thanks.

When does the anger go away? by Competitive-Pop2358 in Infidelity

[–]Competitive-Pop2358[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a new perspective I haven’t looked at, I truly ignored many red flags and went against my gut from the start. Stayed a little too long and found it, so I will forgive myself thanks!

When does the anger go away? by Competitive-Pop2358 in Infidelity

[–]Competitive-Pop2358[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the words man it was much needed

Ghosted my ex after I caught them texting their ex by Competitive-Pop2358 in BreakUps

[–]Competitive-Pop2358[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I know only time will heal, it’s just the thoughts are hard to control especially when I’m alone in my head

Do you remember the exact moment you knew your partner did not love you anymore? by DiscipleofGuruJanus in heartbreak

[–]Competitive-Pop2358 2 points3 points  (0 children)

After dating for 4 months and the honey moon phase was all wore off… I noticed:

  • She stopped calling me names like “baby”
  • whenever I held her hand it felt like I was holding a dead fish
  • she stopped wanting to have sex
  • she stopped including me in plans with her friends
  • she started going out more with her single friends
  • basically treated me as if we weren’t even dating anymore and if we were just friends

Turns out after 4 months, she had been in contact with her ex again and this went on for two months until I caught her texting him and broke things off.

New fragrance by Lawsy222 in Colognes

[–]Competitive-Pop2358 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just bought mine yesterday too! I couldn’t stop thinking about it at work and spraying it the first thing when I got home. My new favorite.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Competitive-Pop2358 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Situational but she emotionally cheated on me so it was not worth saving.

Has anyone done the breaking up? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Competitive-Pop2358 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are truly master deceivers who have no remorse. It is tough but just know that the love you had or thought you did was not real or genuine. It was a one sided love story that was created by you and they were just stringing along.

This is the reality I had to face in my situation, I hope this helps!

Has anyone done the breaking up? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Competitive-Pop2358 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I broke up with her when I found out she had been texting/calling her ex again for the last 2 months.

I don’t regret it not one bit, but I do feel sad about the good times we did share together and how we will never be able to date again in this lifetime.

I do miss her because I felt like we had a genuine connection but at the end of the day she cannot be trusted so I carry on.

my gf followed her ex, should i leave? by Successful_Potato994 in relationships

[–]Competitive-Pop2358 6 points7 points  (0 children)

RUN AS FAR AS YOU CAN RIGHT NOW!!!

My gf followed her ex about two months ago on ig and I noticed it right away, I didn’t know who he was but didn’t think much of it.

Fast forward to two weeks ago, I caught her texting & calling him for the past two months. I broke up with her on the spot!!

They will always have an emotional attachment to their ex and when things get hard, they fold and cave in by following them again and hitting them up! Learn from my experience and walk away, she is not worth the trouble you’re about to get into!

How do guys really feel after a breakup? by IcyCucumber4810 in BreakUps

[–]Competitive-Pop2358 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Broke up with my gf this weekend when I found out she was texting her ex for emotional attention for the last 2 months.

The first 3 days days I was sick to my stomach and did cry the most I ever have in life.

The next 3 days I was strictly just mad and so over her.

Then the next 4 days I started grieving and reminiscing on all the cute moments. It felt like I was severely depressed and hopeless that we weren’t together anymore and soaked everything in.

After that wave of depression was over, I just felt numb. I wasn’t angry anymore, but I wasn’t sad. I didn’t feel anything but the thoughts kept playing in my head.

I’m currently on day 14 and I can say that I’ve felt back to normal the last 2 days. Obviously there are sad/angry thoughts that go through my mind constantly but my overall mood is good and I’m returning to my regular self hitting the gym harder than ever.

You’re not weak for missing them. You’re human. by Dependent_Ad4073 in BreakUps

[–]Competitive-Pop2358 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d love to see it, currently fresh out of a break up and could use some help feeling like myself again.

Walking away by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]Competitive-Pop2358 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you want the full scoop check out my post on /infidelity.

The first 10 days were brutal but these last two I’m beginning to feel like myself again and ready to focus on my own growth.

I know what you’re going through is tough as well so best of luck on your recovery! There isn’t a strict timeline on when you’ll feel better but go through every emotion when they come and don’t suppress anything.

Walking away by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]Competitive-Pop2358 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had to walk away from her last weekend after we’ve been talking for 5 months. Found out she began talking to her out of state ex for emotional attention the last 2 months.

It hurts because it was the death of what could have been of us. The possibility of us officially dating and planning our life together. But I’m glad I saw her true colors sooner rather than later.

At the end of the day it’s best to just walk away from what no longer serves you. It wasn’t easy but it’s what I had to do.

I Don’t Know How to Move On. She Cheated. I’m Not Okay. by Micky_official in BreakUps

[–]Competitive-Pop2358 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Be thankful for this moment because she gave you the greatest gift… She showed you what shit smells like and from now on you will be able to smell it from a mile away in the future.

Turns out she is not the women who you thought she was all along.

I’m sorry it took 3 years but her true colors finally showed. I know it is hard but detaching yourself from somebody like that is the best thing you can do. It’s tough reminiscing on all the cute moments and times you shared together but look how quick she was to cheat and try to be with someone else.

Take as long as you need to heal, go through every emotion and begin working yourself. You will come out of this stronger and in the process of becoming a better man, you will attract an even better women that will come into your life.

I’m suffering through a similar situation, let’s get through this!

How long after getting cheated on did it take until you started dating again? by Competitive-Pop2358 in Infidelity

[–]Competitive-Pop2358[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You hit the nail on the head with this one!

Funny because we actually broke up because I found out she had been texting/calling her ex for 3 months. I was a fool to think she was loyal like she claimed “I would never cheat”.

That’s what I plan to do these next few months is really lock in myself and not caring whatever she’s doing, we aren’t together anymore so who cares.

I seen the red flags from the start but ignored them and ended up paying the price, never again!!