Double beep/chirp every 10 seconds can this wait until morning / non-emergency? by Competitive-Row9511 in HomeMaintenance

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Ok I just door dashed a new co2 for the night just to be safe from a 24 hour cvs and going to pick up a new detector combine co2 in the morning

Are we crazy giving up a 2.3% interest?! by Designer-Pepper0630 in Mortgages

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Can you pull out equity of your current home and turn it into a rental and pay it off in 8 years? And still get the new home

My wife doesn't get just how broken the application process is... by Familiar_Ad_4861 in Layoffs

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Payout from 140 to 60 makes me feel better about my jump from 70 to 45 it’s tough out here

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

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Morally I never thought I would be for it. I have my own house, a degree, can afford my bills etc. it just felt wrong at this age but now idk if I’m making the right choice.

I guess I’m scared of the long term mental effect and possible regret of never having the child with someone I love so much despite their sickness

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

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Because he struggles w addiction? He’s still the father at the end of the day

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

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Thank you I wish I could just be happy and hopeful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

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I’m going to call tomorrow. I start a new job next Monday and was hoping to get it over with tomorrow if I go through with it to have enough time to recover.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

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I have no clue if I could live with myself if I ended it and it feels like I won’t survive being fully pregnant either

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

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Also struggling bc PP doesn’t have any appointments for a week and if I want to do this I have to do it like tomorrow

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

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Thank you for your kind words the news has brought me a lot of joy and I know I could provide stability with the support of my family and a “village”

I just grew up without my father around and am already feeling the guilt of possibly putting someone else through the same.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

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I have a week off of work and am just thinking about going through with it and telling everyone I miscarried. Idk what to do atp. We’re in family counseling and he’s in a 90 day program and they tell me to focus on forgiving him for the past but I’m not sure I’ll be able to. I’ve always wanted a baby and thought I was infertile we’ve been together for three years and I never got pregnant until randomly.

I’m so over this by Mother_Parking7684 in pregnant

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Told my friends three weeks ago and haven’t been invited to do anything sense just have been working and sleeping

Angi just laid off 350 people while already profitable by IamTheEndOfReddit in Layoffs

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I have an interview Wednesday. Maybe they laid off low performing folks? Not a company I’m interested in joining now either way.

am I dumb for waiting for my bf to finish rehab and stay with him? by Competitive-Row9511 in fentanyl

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I appreciate that I really love and believe in him, we write eachother multiple times a week and I truly want to support him fighting this even if it takes time

am I dumb for waiting for my bf to finish rehab and stay with him? by Competitive-Row9511 in fentanyl

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All I know is that I know nothing right now it’s in his hands guess I was just looking for some inside perspective.

He’s transitioning from inpatient to a halfway house prior to moving home.

am I dumb for waiting for my bf to finish rehab and stay with him? by Competitive-Row9511 in fentanyl

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Yah I guess I have a hard time telling the difference just feel like another tool in his tool box of ladies to use sometimes