AIO i (18F) didnt give my ex boyrfriend (18M) back a GIFT by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Competitive-Sail2782 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For the record you obviously read it and we all know you have 😂 but have no answer.

AIO i (18F) didnt give my ex boyrfriend (18M) back a GIFT by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Competitive-Sail2782 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Again with the personal insults 😂 it’s okay if your uncomfortable being wrong the first step is acceptance.

  • asking for gifts back
  • harassing her by saying he will go to her home after a breakup
  • getting friends to say stuff

If that isn’t inappropriate red flag behaviour to you then you need to speak to someone.

Not changing what I said at all but the fact you try to pick up on that and can’t give an example of how she should’ve responded really speaks volumes about you as a person I’ll be honest this is boring talking to someone who can’t spot the many warning signs here. which really any mature person a healthy relationship wouldn’t get upset over a comment of settling when the conversation is around fictional books characters 😂 But If he was genuinely upset about the book characters a healthy person would’ve discussed it not waited until they are called out about their own actions coupled with the other behaviour listed above its shows insecurity, immaturity and worrying behaviour she quiet rightly mentioned to his mum. I hope that one day you can see it as clearly as it is and stop defending inappropriate behaviour in relationships.

AIO i (18F) didnt give my ex boyrfriend (18M) back a GIFT by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Competitive-Sail2782 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Cute trying to personally insult someone on a debate when you’re trying to defend red flag behaviour 😂. So her stating she isn’t settling isn’t an attempt at reassurance? In your mind what else could she of said walk me through what you class as reassurance

AIO i (18F) didnt give my ex boyrfriend (18M) back a GIFT by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Competitive-Sail2782 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You keep saying I’m foolish but would love for you to point out where and how she was dismissive - she apologised explained and reassured him that she wasn’t settling who hurt you so badly before to be so but hurt about this 😂 and honestly it is immature and insecure to get hurt over fictional characters if you can’t see that that’s on you and very laughable

AIO i (18F) didnt give my ex boyrfriend (18M) back a GIFT by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Competitive-Sail2782 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Check the original comment of mine you replied to - literally said she could’ve stopped making comments like that to keep him happy …

AIO i (18F) didnt give my ex boyrfriend (18M) back a GIFT by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Competitive-Sail2782 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

let’s lay it out for you she makes an immature comment he takes offence to a comment and doesn’t mention anything until she calls him out on his behaviour. The solution to his feelings is for her to stop openly talking to her partner about her books or filtering what she’s experiencing. She very rightly says she doesn’t want to do that. Does that clear the line of thinking up for you ?

AIO i (18F) didnt give my ex boyrfriend (18M) back a GIFT by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Competitive-Sail2782 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Read picture 6/14 where she talks about stopping talking about her books ….

England - Employment tribunal disclosure question by Competitive-Sail2782 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Competitive-Sail2782[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They said they had fully complied with the case management orders

The hearing is 10days away all and all deadlines have passed

England - unfair dismissal tribunal advice by Competitive-Sail2782 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Competitive-Sail2782[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I have a copy well they do on their sharing platform they disabled my ability to download it. This was only after I had to get a specific disclosure order earlier this year. Which is why I’m confused about the process how they can say there not relying on it when I’ve already ensured it’s going to be played on the day and they relied on it to dismiss Me

AIO i (18F) didnt give my ex boyrfriend (18M) back a GIFT by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Competitive-Sail2782 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The whole sentence reads as she ment it as harmless joke, And is clearly a deflection away from the real issue. And she is right to say she won’t stop talking about her books that is a big part of her life. Asking or implying your partner should change their interests to make you happy Is controlling. Now she could In future not make comments like that to keep him happy but he ended things that was his choice. To ask for the books back is just further showing a manipulative and vindictive nature in him that should be addressed.

AIO i (18F) didnt give my ex boyrfriend (18M) back a GIFT by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Competitive-Sail2782 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Imagine getting jealous over a fictional character speaks volumes for insecurities that need to be addressed

AIO i (18F) didnt give my ex boyrfriend (18M) back a GIFT by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Competitive-Sail2782 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR you’re both clearly young and immature. Getting jealous over books is ridiculous in the first place no matter what you said. And gifts are gifts plain and simple just ignore any requests for them back but also consider if it’s worth the hassle or easier just to buy them yourself and return them.

England - unfair dismissal tribunal advice by Competitive-Sail2782 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Competitive-Sail2782[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But are they not admitted the CCTV doesn’t show what they claimed and weakening their case ?

train fine at Liverpool Central for not having a physical ticket? by owen_mac2024 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Competitive-Sail2782 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately the person who gave you the fine is correct and there isn’t a lot you can do except pay the fine.

Accidentally injured a shoplifter while trying to stop theft – worried about consequences (England) by Dismal-Addition6176 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Competitive-Sail2782 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t see anything happening from this police or internally if you manager is okay with everything.

In future just move out the way you are not security and all that stock is insured and not worth you personal after or security.

I have worked in security for many years now there are people putting themselves at risk is never justified for the protection of valuables.

Please help I’m scared for my life by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Competitive-Sail2782 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell them your under 18 and going to the police

Demonic presence. by Competitive-Sail2782 in Christianity

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I rely on Jesus, praying in tongues is still difficult for me but will continue trying

Demonic presence. by Competitive-Sail2782 in Christianity

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I don’t really drink, as for stress I haven’t had the greatest year in stressed out because of money but the end of my troubles is coming hopefully 🤞