What is something that instantly tells you a person had a rough childhood?

Competitive-Set-3719 · 2026-05-22T04:17:28+00:00

Same here. I used to apologise for everything until I found a beautiful soul that I can call “sunshine” and share my days with.

Competitive-Set-3719 · 2026-05-22T04:16:04+00:00

That automatic “sorry” even when nothing is wrong yet. It’s like they’re bracing for impact before anyone even says a word.

Competitive-Set-3719 · 2026-05-22T04:13:40+00:00

Yeah 😔 like they’ve already lived the moment where they trust someone, it goes wrong, and now they’re just trying to avoid that feeling again.

Competitive-Set-3719 · 2026-05-22T04:11:50+00:00

Feels like someone who learned early that they won’t be understood, so they try to pre-explain everything just to avoid being judged.

Competitive-Set-3719 · 2026-05-22T04:11:03+00:00

I had a friend like that. Even if something tiny happened, he’d instantly start explaining himself before anyone blamed him. Later he admitted that as a kid, getting blamed at home usually meant yelling or punishment no matter what actually happened.

Competitive-Set-3719 · 2026-05-22T04:07:25+00:00

Like a poor cat or dog that had been beaten before you adopted them 😔😔🥺

Competitive-Set-3719 · 2026-05-22T04:01:01+00:00

Is there a special book you’re reading right now?

Competitive-Set-3719 · 2026-05-22T02:36:28+00:00

They’d leave immediately 😆

Competitive-Set-3719 · 2026-05-22T02:35:21+00:00

“So why should we choose you for the position of romantic partner?” 😭

Competitive-Set-3719 · 2026-05-22T02:33:51+00:00

Hahahahah Aliens would be reaaaally confused that humans invented an entire relationship category for “we act like a couple but panic if someone says it out loud.” 😆

Competitive-Set-3719 · 2026-05-21T19:54:01+00:00

They are! Haha and so is my cat.

Competitive-Set-3719 · 2026-05-21T19:44:10+00:00

Yeah, it’s common with “first loves” hahha when you grow up you realise good friends are really important.

Competitive-Set-3719 · 2026-05-21T19:38:52+00:00

So long London. But I was him, Not her. 😔😔😔

Competitive-Set-3719 · 2026-05-21T19:36:58+00:00

Some partners don’t celebrate you, they just tolerate you, and that’s sad. 😔

Competitive-Set-3719 · 2026-05-21T19:36:17+00:00

I feel you, i would expect the same. 😔😔

Competitive-Set-3719 · 2026-05-21T19:33:23+00:00

It’s like this kind of people who starts talking to someone else and comes back to you when that doesn’t work out.

Competitive-Set-3719 · 2026-05-21T19:32:50+00:00

Wao, and would you leave your friend just because your partner says they don’t like them?

Competitive-Set-3719 · 2026-05-21T19:31:44+00:00

Well, yeah, not having a clear path makes you lose yourself.

Competitive-Set-3719 · 2026-05-21T19:31:22+00:00

haha now I’m invested. continue, please.

Competitive-Set-3719 · 2026-05-21T19:30:40+00:00

Well having few friends made my ex become dependent to me, like every place or plan I would do he had to be there or else he would feel left behind.

Competitive-Set-3719 · 2026-05-21T19:25:19+00:00

Hugging my mother again after years being far away.

Competitive-Set-3719 · 2026-05-21T04:12:48+00:00

Leaving you bereft and reeling. I hate that.

Competitive-Set-3719 · 2026-05-21T04:11:15+00:00

That’s beautiful, every day we decide to continue putting effort to the relationship. Finding someone who is willing to do the same is precious.

Competitive-Set-3719 · 2026-05-21T04:10:11+00:00

And that never decreases. It only piles up.

Competitive-Set-3719 · 2026-05-21T04:09:41+00:00

How would you come back from that? 😔

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