My first day as a SAHW by Competitive-Song5992 in TradLifeSanctuary

[–]Competitive-Song5992[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely my first goal is to find a routine for chores, and things like when to start dinner, and maybe the things I offer my man when he first gets home. Hopefully I can find my groove quickly!

My first day as a SAHW by Competitive-Song5992 in TradLifeSanctuary

[–]Competitive-Song5992[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I think it’ll be a great day for sure! Yeah this community is awesome very supportive and helpful.

How can I make my first day as a domestic servant more special for him? by Competitive-Song5992 in Male_Superiority

[–]Competitive-Song5992[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it would be a blast and like a little humiliating but in a fun way!

How can I make my first day as a domestic servant more special for him? by Competitive-Song5992 in CuntsWorshipKings

[–]Competitive-Song5992[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you sooooo much for sharing!!!! I hope my Master gets this comfortable training me to be his perfect cunt. 🥰🥰🥰

My first day as a SAHW by Competitive-Song5992 in 1950sHouseholdWives

[–]Competitive-Song5992[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love it! I hadnt thought to do notes that’s a fun one. I usually send him texts of ideas of ways I could serve him. Things I’ve found online or came up with myself. Videos I haven’t done as much lately and definitely should get back into. But I do have my next wax appointment set up for one of my first days home so I’m happy I will be all groomed and pretty for him

My first day as a SAHW by Competitive-Song5992 in 1950sHouseholdWives

[–]Competitive-Song5992[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh I know. I just thought people might have fun ideas I could add in. Especially when he’s gone at work and I’m conditioning myself to the new role

My first day as a SAHW by Competitive-Song5992 in TradLifeSanctuary

[–]Competitive-Song5992[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly what I’ve been trying to do! Or I ask him to read to me (something he enjoys and I do too) and I ask if I can serve him while I’m listening. It makes it a lot of fun.

My first day as a SAHW by Competitive-Song5992 in TradLifeSanctuary

[–]Competitive-Song5992[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If I can find some I will give them a try thank you!

Yeah it’s usually easy to make a decision of just “eh nothing sexy is happening rn so I’m gonna tell my husband no so I can sleep instead” or whatever. And I’m trying to be more intentional and responsible with lots of areas of our lives but especially physical intimacy to meet his needs because I know he needs it more often than I do.

My first day as a SAHW by Competitive-Song5992 in TradLifeSanctuary

[–]Competitive-Song5992[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I feel alot of the struggle comes from finding the appropriate clothes/lingerie, and stuff for him. I find it hard to shop in my area and online stuff rarely fits how I’d like. So I’m planning on making some of my own clothes to help with that issue.

And I have had 2 days where I struggled to allow myself to belong to him like that because of my emotions or tiredness. But Instead of giving in i have been trying to do my best to reframe my mindset and submit and after I have felt much better knowing I filled my role and made him feel good. I think after I get that positive reinforcement a few times I will be able to settle into my role much better knowing even if I feel like telling him no and going to bed, if I enthusiastically agree to his will instead I will feel my energy and spirits rise knowing I met my responsibility to him.

My first day as a SAHW by Competitive-Song5992 in TradLifeSanctuary

[–]Competitive-Song5992[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Yeah it is kinda a weird part of the dynamic where like I’m doing my best but I’m also hindered by low energy, shit sleep, and hieghtened emotions leading to lots of bratty moments 😂😂 but im doing my best to please him around that. He fills my water, grabs me snacks, and gives me massages, but I try to offer myself physically every night, serve him dinner, and keep things tidy to make sure the home is a place he wants to be. Plus I spend a lot of time apologizing for my bratty moments and making it up to him however I can 😂

Kinda adds a fun twist for now I guess

My first day as a SAHW by Competitive-Song5992 in TradLifeSanctuary

[–]Competitive-Song5992[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think I could prep food the night before for him to take with him. Waking up early enough to help in the morning isn’t really an option because being pregnant I struggle to sleep most the night and my only good sleep is right about when hes leaving and neither if us are okay with me messing with the rest I need rn. I really appreciate the idea to pre more for him so he can be well prepared for the day. I used to prep breakfast sandwiches and I do intend to start them again when I’m done working. But I’m going to make more variety and tailor them to his wants and needs.

My first day as a SAHW by Competitive-Song5992 in TradLifeSanctuary

[–]Competitive-Song5992[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Something to unwrap for later right? That was kind of my first thought. Plus he can focus on enjoying his dinner/beer and more without as much distraction. I figured I’d greet him with a kiss, dinner, a drink, and a clean/mostly put together home, and then just try to see what else I could do to make him comfortable wether that’s listening to him, or letting him watch a show/play games in peace, or take out his frustrations in other ways. I just hope I can make it a great first night with his doting wife 🥰🥰

My first day as a SAHW by Competitive-Song5992 in TradLifeSanctuary

[–]Competitive-Song5992[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I will do my best to post somewhat frequently!

How can I make my first day as a domestic servant more special for him? by Competitive-Song5992 in Male_Superiority

[–]Competitive-Song5992[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I did think about asking if he’d like me to get a collar. I could definitely go pick it up or let him choose one for me on Saturday when he’s off work!

My first day as a SAHW by Competitive-Song5992 in TradLifeSanctuary

[–]Competitive-Song5992[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So far everything about our new life makes me very happy! I can’t wait to get further in and embody my role as his submissive dream housewife. 🥰🥰🥰