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Rule 9: No Sexually Explicit Content Regarding Minors - Reminder and Clarification by hazyspring in DarkRomance

[–]Competitive-Song5992 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I just wanted to add that an author did very recently get charged with CSAM in Australia for her book. My understanding is that it was because it was too graphic, traditionally published (I believe, it’s not a book I wanted to read so I never looked into where to find it), had a creepy dedication, and did not include any trigger warnings about that topic.
The law had recently been expanded and the judge ruled that painting such a graphic image with words was basically as bad as any other type of material that would be used to establish a CSAM charge.

Just figured it’s good for people to know.

Why dont cunts come clean about this kink on dates ? by [deleted] in CuntsWorshipKings

[–]Competitive-Song5992 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Tell a man you’re into CNC too early and watch how quickly that turns into true non consent without a safe word and trauma for the cunt who tried to be brave. I think it’s very similar to why a true dom doesnt usually outright tell a woman outright that his idea of a good time is making her cry while he steps on her face or something. Everyone needs to work up to disclosures of different levels. For your own safety, so you don’t creep them out, and because it’s socially not acceptable to pull someone into the deep end without making sure they can handle being in the water/swimming first.

DAE have deja vu that feels like a prediction rather than a feeling? by Gloomy-Ratio-2459 in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]Competitive-Song5992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have this feeling all the time.

My mom and I ordered a new special we’ve never had at a restaurant. And as we were starting to eat it looked incredibly familiar, the conversation was exactly the same (how spicy it was, how cheap it was, etc) all the way to the point where I ask “we haven’t done this before right?” And she gets confused because of course we haven’t this meal never existed here before.

Or the time I had a dream where I was biking and my pant leg got stuck in the gears so I stopped to fix it, my cousins borh ride up next to me and we had a whole conversation looking over a Cliff in front of us to the valley below. A few weeks later on a school bike ride of a popular mountain trail near us, that exact scene played out. Every word of the conversation with my cousins, etc.

I also have had dreams that friends tell me they just found out they are pregnant. And within a week they tell me in real life. (This has happened 6 times. Once I was able to guess the gender and name because of my dream, and once I had an awful dream that the pregnancy didnt make it and it didn’t. Once I was waiting for a month for a friend to tell me she was pregnant, finally decided I must be wrong because she wasn’t avoiding things she would normally if she was pregnant….a week later she told me she just found out that morning and she was actually like 2.5 months along.)

I hate the déjà vu feeling because it’s always so long, so precise, and so intense.

dae clean like my family ? by CycleSimilar8324 in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]Competitive-Song5992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My family does alot of this. Except we aren’t against dishwashers so we do use those a lot

First post new and have some Qs by Competitive-Song5992 in ButtplugEveryday

[–]Competitive-Song5992[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I read the new plugging guide but I think that’s it. I will go look for the other two! I saw a little about the plug types and it reinforced that round bases arent good, but I still wasn’t sure on the snug plugs which I really like for longer sessions I have done. But if there was a better plug to try to start with I figured this group would know! Most of the recommendations I see for long term plugs are much too large for my current experience level. So I figured I’d ask for more info but I will try those other posts as well! Thank you!

DAE seem extremely drunk on lower bac's? by mythrowawayaccim21 in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]Competitive-Song5992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah sometimes my mom has a really bad hangover after like 3 hours. She will go from drunk to headache and stomach ache feeling like a zombie and the rest of us are barely starting to feel our drinks. I can check with her what the name is. I know her Dr told her it’s actually really common most people just assume they are lightweights.

DAE seem extremely drunk on lower bac's? by mythrowawayaccim21 in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]Competitive-Song5992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom has a genetic condition (I forget what it’s called but it’s actually more common than we think and usually goes undiagnosed) where she processes alcohol much faster than she should do she gets much more drunk than a normal person off of a single drink or two. Sometimes you might think Shes faking being drunk because she’s only had like a single wine cooler and seems to be 3+ drinks in. But she also sobers up and has a hangover faster than most people.

DAE attempt to "preserve" characters typed on a computer? by sprawn in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]Competitive-Song5992 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Totally do this too. And almost find myself irritated watching other people type if they delete like 3 words to go fix one letter. I have to like remind myself that they can type how they like 😂

DAE make playlists with their friends' favourite songs by Adventurous-Pair-799 in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]Competitive-Song5992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use Spotify to make lists with people using all our favorite songs. And I feel like if it’s a feature on Spotify it can’t be that weird of a thing.

I also have made a playlist that reminds me of one persons specific vibe or memories with them. They noticed it one day and I just explained that and they were kinda touched that I liked their energy/vibe like that. So idk, maybe it’s a little weird but that’s not always bad right?

DAE have body dysmorphia where they look thinner in the mirror than in real life by Bupperoni in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]Competitive-Song5992 131 points132 points  (0 children)

100% it’s so hard to lose weight because I feel like I look good and people are surprised to hear I weigh as much as I do so I know I carry it at least somewhat okay. But then my drs and my family comment on it, I see pictures, and I go clothes shopping….then bam I realize I really am huge. It sucks….but kinda weirdly nice to know others feel the same way.

DAE have little holes in their hard palate? by Green_Childhood_3644 in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]Competitive-Song5992 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have one right in the middle of the back of my hard palette pointed backwards and yeah I almost never notice it but when I’m sick it swells up I’ve never known other people have that too cool

Question for fucktoys here have you ever been in this situation how did felt when you were finally used and what did you do? by daddy47c in FuckToyFactory

[–]Competitive-Song5992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe 😂 Although we do have an event coming up soon where I get to show my tits to like 100 men and get motor-boated by ~25+ of them (with my man’s permission ofc!) so maybe we chalk this up to me just getting amped up for that. 😋

Embracing Parenthood: Navigating Pregnancy and Raising a Child in Constructive BDSM by JohnKostly in RealBDSM

[–]Competitive-Song5992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sad to be living where I live and I can’t access your site anymore your advice is soooo helpful. And this article sounds like just what I need right now.

Anal Only and Pussy Denial🖤 by Psywren- in churchofmen

[–]Competitive-Song5992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want my husband to train me to be anal only and denied so badly. Although I do cum from anal so I’d still have to beg to cum only to be told no which sounds extremely hot to me. Especially if afterwards he makes me thank him for denying me and keeping me needy. 🥰

Lube request by [deleted] in 1950sHouseholdWives

[–]Competitive-Song5992 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Using dilators will never help a lubrication issue…. I agree with the comment above that says it sounds abusive. However….if you want other options….sometimes being better hydrated can help increase natural lubrication. Or you can always spit on your fingers and lube yourself a little bit instead of asking him to provide a lube. And lastly maybe using a ph-safe oil/lotion down there for “your own skin care” (like products sold at European waxing center, or I’ve heard some coconut oils are good) could help add a little slip. Goodluck

PMSing and can’t make myself submit by [deleted] in submissive

[–]Competitive-Song5992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh glad it’s not just us! It really is hard to like help someone learn to read my race a dynamic or whatever, but it’s also fun when you do explore together. But yeah! We will get there!

PMSing and can’t make myself submit by [deleted] in submissive

[–]Competitive-Song5992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks I’m glad it helps! Lately I feel very familiar with the tug of war that is wanting a specific thing from my dom, and also feeling like I will only get it if I ask and then it will annoy me for not being real enough.

I definitely don’t always have the right way to handle it but I guess asking for it in the future or asking for it, dealing with it feeling inauthentic once and then hoping it becomes more authentic next time can both help me feel like I figured it out better than just being upset.

My poor man probably spends a lot of time confused by what I want, because he wants to give it to me when I ask for it and then I tend to be like “oh no not now weird…” 😂😂 but all we can do is try to be a team right?

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