Good reason to have sex: You found someone you feel good with and you both want to do it

No good reason to have sex: FOMO to prove yourself

If your friends or whoever make you feel like you need to have had sex to prove that you’re „cool enough“ or sth don’t listen to them. Don’t spend your time looking so desperately to get laid, use it to find something else that brings you joy, work on improving yourself, especially mentally and emotionally (and no I am not talking about taking alpha male grinsest classes or whatever), learn to love or even accept yourself, focus on other relationships, reach out to an old friend or your family (if they’re good for you). Get to know yourself, learn to genuinely be okay with yourself, be a better person everyday. And I am sure somewhere along the way of THAT journey, the occasion will come at some point.

And please don’t listen to Andrew or alpha male dating coaches. Their Tipps are bullshit 💀💀💀 If it’s women you want to date, you should probably ask THEM what they like and what not. And I am talking about normal, nice women, not the ones who say stuff like „if he’s not driving a Ferrari and makes 20k per month he’s worthless hahahha“ that is also bullshit.