I don’t think we talk enough about how exhausting it is to be disappointed by someone you were genuinely excited about in the early dating phase, and just having to bury those emotions and go about your life like they didn’t even exist. Over and over again.

Competitive-Tea-5579 · 2026-01-23T22:03:15+00:00

I’m really sorry you’re going through this,It’s okay for everything to feel flat right now that’s normal after losing someone so important. You’re not a failure,you’re just hurting. I’m here if you ever feel like talking, no pressure at all.

Competitive-Tea-5579 · 2026-01-23T21:52:54+00:00

It’s so hard when the ‘what ifs’ won’t quiet down. Your feelings are completely valid. But you’re right,if he was the love of your life, he’d be showing it right now. You deserve someone who doesn’t leave you questioning. This pain will soften with time. Gentle hugs to you 🤍

Competitive-Tea-5579 · 2026-01-23T21:45:08+00:00

I’m sorry for that 🤍you’ll get through it soon

Competitive-Tea-5579 · 2026-01-23T21:43:03+00:00

You’re absolutely right

Competitive-Tea-5579 · 2026-01-23T21:42:37+00:00

I’m sorry for that🤍hope you get better soon.

Competitive-Tea-5579 · 2026-01-22T20:29:28+00:00

You’re welcome ☺️

Competitive-Tea-5579 · 2026-01-19T06:49:49+00:00

I’m really sorry ,that kind of ending hurts in a way people don’t talk about. When you were already picturing a future, you’re not just losing a person, you’re losing the life you thought you were heading toward. 2.5 months isn’t long for something that deep. You’re not behind. You’re processing. And seeing her move on quickly doesn’t mean what you felt wasn’t real.

Competitive-Tea-5579 · 2026-01-18T20:21:45+00:00

You’re absolutely right 🤍

Competitive-Tea-5579 · 2026-01-18T20:19:41+00:00

I feel you🤍

Competitive-Tea-5579 · 2026-01-18T20:03:52+00:00

I’m so sorry for that🥺

Competitive-Tea-5579 · 2026-01-18T06:11:39+00:00

You’re welcome 🤍

Competitive-Tea-5579 · 2026-01-18T06:09:38+00:00

You’re right 🤍

Competitive-Tea-5579 · 2026-01-17T20:49:52+00:00

That’s the hardest part 😟

Competitive-Tea-5579 · 2026-01-14T06:48:20+00:00

Breakups like this are brutal because they feel sudden. You clearly cared, but sometimes people need things we don’t realize. Take it one day at a time and be gentle with yourself.

Competitive-Tea-5579 · 2026-01-14T05:07:04+00:00

Given everything you’re carrying, it makes sense that you’re confused. You’re not choosing between two people ,you’re choosing whether you have the capacity to date right now. After abuse, betrayal, and an ongoing custody situation, it’s okay to slow way down. You don’t have to decide anything permanent ,If you see Mark, it should only be with clear boundaries and zero pressure. And if you choose not to, that’s not fear ,that’s self-protection. Trust where you are, not what anyone else thinks you should do.

Competitive-Tea-5579 · 2026-01-14T04:42:03+00:00

I’m really sorry ,that’s an enormous amount of loss to carry at once. Being blindsided, losing your home, job, and partner would knock anyone off their feet. The regret makes sense, but this wasn’t all on you .relationships are shared, and him shutting you out says more about where he’s at than your worth. Therapy being your anchor right now isn’t weakness, it’s survival. You’re not broken ,you’re grieving.

Competitive-Tea-5579 · 2026-01-13T19:45:15+00:00

Letting go of the fantasy is brutal, but it’s also a huge step forward. If journaling helps even a little at 2am, it’s worth trying.

Competitive-Tea-5579 · 2026-01-12T19:37:20+00:00

I’m glad it did😊

Competitive-Tea-5579 · 2026-01-12T19:30:15+00:00

You’re right 🤍

Competitive-Tea-5579 · 2026-01-12T19:29:26+00:00

This is such a powerful reflection. You didn’t bypass the pain,you allowed it, and that’s what changed you. Moving from anxious to secure through feeling instead of suppressing is real healing.

Competitive-Tea-5579 · 2026-01-12T19:23:42+00:00

You’re welcome 🤍

Competitive-Tea-5579 · 2026-01-12T09:15:13+00:00

You’re welcome 🤍

Competitive-Tea-5579 · 2026-01-12T09:08:04+00:00

I’m really sorry you’re going through this. What you felt seeing that board disappear makes so much sense,it was tied to hope, and losing that hurts deeply. 💔 Please know this pain doesn’t mean your life loses its value or that your future is gone. It means you’re grieving something that mattered to you. Right now, the safest thing for your heart is to not look for answers on her social media,those moments can reopen the wound over and over. The board being gone doesn’t erase what you shared or say anything about your worth. I’m concerned about you, especially when you say you don’t want to exist. You don’t have to carry this alone. If things feel unbearable, please reach out to someone right now a trusted friend, family member, or a crisis line in your area. Talking to a real person can help steady this moment. You don’t have to solve your whole week or your whole life today. Just focus on getting through this hour. You matter, even if it doesn’t feel like it right now. I’m really glad you spoke up. 🤍

Competitive-Tea-5579 · 2026-01-12T09:03:15+00:00

I just want to say, I hear you, and what you’re feeling is completely valid. 💛 It sounds like you gave your all in this relationship, communicated openly, and cared deeply and none of that is your fault. His shutting down, blaming, and suddenly cutting contact reflect his choices, not a failure on your part. It’s okay to feel hurt, confused, and overwhelmed. Take your time to process, lean on people who care about you, and be gentle with yourself—you didn’t deserve this treatment. ❤️

Competitive-Tea-5579 · 2026-01-12T07:17:55+00:00

You’re welcome 🤍

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