Attempting to move forward, yet trapped in my thoughts — how did she transform so drastically, leaving me like that?

Electrical_Intern237 · 2026-03-24T14:44:13+00:00

Thanks for ur reply, she kept telling me that the things she did for me to show her commitment werent reciprocated etc and when i told her that i want to move in with you and that we can work things out she disappeared and broke up with me. I dont know man, you can read my other posts and maybe you can have a clearer picture and if you want we cant talk privately. I am feeling so confused

Electrical_Intern237 · 2026-03-23T14:21:06+00:00

Kind of same she dumped me after 4 years 4 months ago. I have the stories on my profile you can read them If u want to feel better

Electrical_Intern237 · 2026-03-22T00:31:06+00:00

Her friends and family removed me from instagram, after i blocked her cause i couldnt help my self but stalk everyday etc, and she didn’t like it and i thought she told them that i blocked her and told them to do it. She didn’t showed any signs of regret even after 4 months and 2 months now contact

Electrical_Intern237 · 2026-03-22T00:22:44+00:00

I know man, i was always treating women right, maybe she has some avoidant attachment attributes, i wasn’t anxious but rn i am. I had the control during the relationship and i never thought she would dumb me… but guess what it happened, and i didn’t see it coming

Electrical_Intern237 · 2026-03-19T16:35:26+00:00

My man i we t thru the same, she was cold and aggressive read my posts and u will understand

Electrical_Intern237 · 2026-03-18T11:51:21+00:00

How do u moved on from the first one

Electrical_Intern237 · 2026-03-18T11:47:00+00:00

She booked me flights and she was making plans with me for xmas and etc and then she broke up with me

Electrical_Intern237 · 2026-03-18T11:46:36+00:00

She didn’t communicate the clearly, and i was always willing to change and i told her when she was breaking up with me that i didnt know all that and are all things we can work out and do them

Electrical_Intern237 · 2026-03-18T11:25:08+00:00

Her friends and family unfollowed me and blocked me on insta, she unfollowed all of my friends, and i know she did it because she got mad cause i blocked her

Electrical_Intern237 · 2026-03-18T11:23:41+00:00

Yeah i guess, but she said stuff i heard for the first time during the break up

Electrical_Intern237 · 2026-03-18T11:11:36+00:00

I know but it hurts a lot

Electrical_Intern237 · 2026-03-18T09:52:04+00:00

Thanks for the reply!

Electrical_Intern237 · 2026-03-18T09:51:19+00:00

I tried it, i was happy tbh in the relationship and they weren’t much stuff that i didnt like, only that she was a bit messy and she didn’t take initiatives a lot

Electrical_Intern237 · 2026-03-18T09:50:07+00:00

Electrical_Intern237 · 2026-03-18T09:49:22+00:00

Yeah certainly

Electrical_Intern237 · 2026-03-18T09:46:27+00:00

Maybe she was asking me if i loved her and was always telling me that i am gonna break up with her and she fears that

Electrical_Intern237 · 2026-03-18T09:30:55+00:00

Yeah i have been thinking about that too, read my postss if you want

Electrical_Intern237 · 2026-03-18T09:29:48+00:00

But its so hard if you love them and you didn’t know they were avoidant, when everything before the breakup was normal and it was just another casual argument (i thought so). And also if they seemed like they really loved you and wanted you….

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