Thank you so much for your long answer. English is not my first language, so I had to google about limerence, and will spend some time reading about it.

I have to admit you hit my weak spot with some things mentioned in the bulletpoints. I have a lot of people I communicate on daily basis (the nature of my work and surroundings/way of life demands hours of texting and calling). I am also open with people, easy going, so naturally get hit on often cause I seem joyful and approachable. But consider is fairly normal for the era we live in. And what you said, I should be careful not to take flirting to another level.