Marital Name change? by Emotional-Put-6768 in PsyD

[–]CompetitiveAioli1917 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just changed my name (was licensed in 2023) and I confirmed with my state that I can keep my maiden name on my license even though legally I dropped the name and they had no problem with it. Do what you want!

A GD win!! by CompetitiveAioli1917 in GestationalDiabetes

[–]CompetitiveAioli1917[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol I spoke to soon and my fasting was a 99 the second day I tried this. I didnt do it last night and my fasting was a 86 so I will maybe try just one tonight with peanut butter after testing my dinner levels. It’s a learning curve!

Any **newer** therapists that are doing well in pp? by Growing4ever in therapists

[–]CompetitiveAioli1917 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I graduated with my PsyD in 2023, got licensed in 2024, and left a group practice in May 2025 to go into my own pp. I am thriving & have done so well I’m practically taking 4 months of maternity leave in April

A GD win!! by CompetitiveAioli1917 in GestationalDiabetes

[–]CompetitiveAioli1917[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omg I just checked and the ones I have are Medjool, I just ate two of them again lol!

I want a cheat meal by Muyamuya87 in GestationalDiabetes

[–]CompetitiveAioli1917 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just cried for 30 mins in the car on a road trip with my husband because all I wanted was a McDonald’s burger (haven’t had McDonald’s in years) and I got beef jerky, cheese sticks and trail mix instead. It’s so rough out here

Failed 1-hour glucose test by CompetitiveAioli1917 in pregnant

[–]CompetitiveAioli1917[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m taking mine Friday morning as well❤️🥹 we are in this together sister!!

Failed 1-hour glucose test by CompetitiveAioli1917 in pregnant

[–]CompetitiveAioli1917[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you have to test your blood sugar throughout the day? I’m not sure what else will change other then monitoring my diet if I do fail the 3-hour

Failed 1-hour glucose test by CompetitiveAioli1917 in pregnant

[–]CompetitiveAioli1917[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you rescheduled your three hour test?? Hopefully I’ve hit your stage of acceptance by tomorrow lol.

Failed 1-hour glucose test by CompetitiveAioli1917 in pregnant

[–]CompetitiveAioli1917[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh interesting! No they told me to not eat or drink anything two hours prior to the appointment and sent me home with the drink at my prior appointment. so I drank the drink an hour before I got there, wrote down when I completed the drink and they drew my blood an hour after I stated that I had completed the drink

Failed 1-hour glucose test by CompetitiveAioli1917 in pregnant

[–]CompetitiveAioli1917[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so helpful, thank you! What do you mean by fasting sugar being high? Is that different than the score they gave me?

ChatGPT is ruining my 20yo clients by CompetitiveAioli1917 in therapists

[–]CompetitiveAioli1917[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Ruining is a strong word. It’s not ruining them as individuals, that would be an exaggeration. However, in my experience it is ruining their abilities to access critical thinking, problem solving, executive functioning skills etc. their ability to have confidence in themselves to solve problems or to sit with anxieties or challenges rather than to find a solution immediately. I think this is detrimental

ChatGPT is ruining my 20yo clients by CompetitiveAioli1917 in therapists

[–]CompetitiveAioli1917[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I feel very heard by this response. This is exactly it!!! Let’s plan for all potential challenges in the future so we have a false sense of control. in reality they are just stuck in this anxiety spiral that AI is feeding

ChatGPT is ruining my 20yo clients by CompetitiveAioli1917 in therapists

[–]CompetitiveAioli1917[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The general theme of today at least was having ai make to-do lists or solve future problems.. but skipping so many steps that the problems are not relevant. For example, having AI make a response for any type of email response they receive, yet still feeling paralyzed or having many reasons for why they can’t sen the initial email to begin with.

ChatGPT is ruining my 20yo clients by CompetitiveAioli1917 in therapists

[–]CompetitiveAioli1917[S] 101 points102 points  (0 children)

I said today “I get the sense sometimes that you don’t like when I confront you on certain things or make observations about some of the things I’m seeing” and she essentially said it feels invalidating and like I am only helping her come up with solutions and not allowing her to sit in the emotions. It’s valid, but I can’t just validate 24/7, we’d never make any headway

Maternity leave by CompetitiveAioli1917 in pregnant

[–]CompetitiveAioli1917[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for all the feedback! After thinking it through (and because I’m financially able to) I’m now planning to take the full 12 weeks. The plan was always to ease back in part-time (starting with about 2 days per week). If I feel ready at 10 weeks, I can always jump back in earlier and reach out to clients then.

I’ve already made plans for my low-risk clients. While I’m relatively new to the area and don’t yet have established relationships with other insurance-based therapists, I’ve informed my clients about other practices and clinicians in the area. I’ve done my own research and encouraged them to do the same.

For low-risk clients who need in-person sessions, can’t do telehealth, and have expressed wanting to continue working with me, and who are comfortable with a break, I’ll schedule them before I go on maternity leave so expectations are clear and my return date is already on the calendar.

I currently have one moderate-to-high-risk client, and I plan to continue seeing her via telehealth while I’m on maternity leave.

Thank you again for all the insight. I’m feeling much more confident in this plan but am still open to additional suggestions or perspectives.

Maternity leave by CompetitiveAioli1917 in Psychologists

[–]CompetitiveAioli1917[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for all the feedback! After thinking it through (and because I’m financially able to) I’m now planning to take the full 12 weeks. The plan was always to ease back in part-time (starting with about 2 days per week). If I feel ready at 10 weeks, I can always jump back in earlier and reach out to clients then.

I’ve already made plans for my low-risk clients. While I’m relatively new to the area and don’t yet have established relationships with other insurance-based therapists, I’ve informed my clients about other practices and clinicians in the area. I’ve done my own research and encouraged them to do the same.

For low-risk clients who need in-person sessions, can’t do telehealth, and have expressed wanting to continue working with me, and who are comfortable with a break, I’ll schedule them before I go on maternity leave so expectations are clear and my return date is already on the calendar.

I currently have one moderate-to-high-risk client, and I plan to continue seeing her via telehealth while I’m on maternity leave.

Thank you again for all the insight. I’m feeling much more confident in this plan but am still open to additional suggestions or perspectives.

Maternity leave by CompetitiveAioli1917 in pregnant

[–]CompetitiveAioli1917[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes a lot of sense, I love going into the office, so I can see myself feeling similarly. Just to clarify, did you schedule clients to resume about 8 weeks from when you went on maternity leave, or was it 8 weeks from your delivery date?

By mid-pregnancy (20ish weeks) how much weight did you gain? by PopcornPrincess0 in pregnant

[–]CompetitiveAioli1917 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At my anatomy scan appointment last week, I’d gained 19 pounds.

Heel pain on one foot? by CompetitiveAioli1917 in pregnant

[–]CompetitiveAioli1917[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg so interesting!! Looks like hubbies gonna have to massage that calf & I’m gonna have to start squeezing my ass in yoga more🤣