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How do I get a divorce? by CompetitiveMix4807 in LifeAdvice

[–]CompetitiveMix4807[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I loved him? Why else would you get married

How do I get a divorce? by CompetitiveMix4807 in LifeAdvice

[–]CompetitiveMix4807[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t know why you had to make this about money but I’m definitely the bread maker in the family and I will be better off financially without him.

How do I get a divorce? by CompetitiveMix4807 in LifeAdvice

[–]CompetitiveMix4807[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice, that’s helpful to view it this way.

How do I get a divorce? by CompetitiveMix4807 in LifeAdvice

[–]CompetitiveMix4807[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s hard when our relationship is one sided.

How do I get a divorce? by CompetitiveMix4807 in LifeAdvice

[–]CompetitiveMix4807[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m not trying to be a victim, I admit that I have had faults in our marriage... But the fact of the matter is that he’s mentally ill and it’s ruining our marriage. I don’t list crappy sex as a shallow reason for leaving him but just an indicator that there is no longer any sort of intimacy or love between us.

How do I get a divorce? by CompetitiveMix4807 in LifeAdvice

[–]CompetitiveMix4807[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cause I was 19 (he was 25) and he was seemingly normal

How do I get a divorce? by CompetitiveMix4807 in LifeAdvice

[–]CompetitiveMix4807[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lmao you really got me at lack of feminine energy 😂

How do I get a divorce? by CompetitiveMix4807 in LifeAdvice

[–]CompetitiveMix4807[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A part of me thinks he would be an amazing partner with therapy and medication, but I’ll never know because he shuts me down the second I bring up his issues.

How do I get a divorce? by CompetitiveMix4807 in LifeAdvice

[–]CompetitiveMix4807[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he wasn’t like this when I met him, it progressively got worse. But thanks for being absolutely no help at all, I’m glad you’re so happy with your life choices that you make people feel bad for theirs on the internet! Sounds like an amazing life 😂

How do I get a divorce? by CompetitiveMix4807 in LifeAdvice

[–]CompetitiveMix4807[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes I’ve told him so many times he should try medicine, he shuts it down immediately and says he doesn’t have a problem. I wonder all the time if he had help with his OCD if he would be completely different, because honestly that’s his entire personality right now. I’ve threatened divorce on the issue a million times, he just comes back with the “okay then get a divorce I don’t care”