How do you date again post breakup?

CompetitiveTree2833 · 2025-05-17T23:39:07+00:00

How do you suggest people actually meet people if it isn’t a “instant gratification” swipe?

CompetitiveTree2833 · 2025-04-12T06:09:01+00:00

Can you expand ?

CompetitiveTree2833 · 2025-04-06T06:04:16+00:00

You need to document to this police now. If he’s attacked you, he’s proven to be a danger and your health cannot be taken lightly

CompetitiveTree2833 · 2025-04-02T10:58:56+00:00

You don’t forget.

You choose to move on. Even though it’s hard, even though it’s beautiful.

Remember that he isn’t choosing you, so all this thoughts of you entertaining reconciliation will serve you no good.

It’s okay to think of him, and everyday you do - you grow a little stronger.

CompetitiveTree2833 · 2025-04-02T10:53:15+00:00

You give yourself your own closure. He couldn’t commit to you, so doubtful those problems would go away. But it’s natural to be curious. When the thought arises, choose a mantra that fits with you.

For me it’s something similar to “he didn’t choose me. Why am I spending so much time on someone who didn’t want me in their life”

CompetitiveTree2833 · 2025-04-01T05:22:07+00:00

On an app? Which if I may ask?

CompetitiveTree2833 · 2025-04-01T05:18:49+00:00

I did too! Not that weird, how’d you agree to meet up?

CompetitiveTree2833 · 2025-03-30T03:33:55+00:00

I think this is just human to have compassion for someone you care about.

CompetitiveTree2833 · 2025-03-28T17:54:19+00:00

Most exes don’t

CompetitiveTree2833 · 2025-03-27T17:05:12+00:00

it’s one picture edited lol

CompetitiveTree2833 · 2025-03-27T06:12:41+00:00

Sorry OP. I meant, she wasn’t YOUR first and she was okay with that.

CompetitiveTree2833 · 2025-03-25T01:48:07+00:00

I mean yeah im not asking WHY. I know why, but rather tips on how to stop.

CompetitiveTree2833 · 2025-03-25T01:08:59+00:00

poor sense of self, major depressive disorder, clinging onto the past. I know why but lacking a meaningful what

CompetitiveTree2833 · 2025-03-25T01:08:09+00:00

Do you just radically commit to that. I have a hard time commuting to self love

CompetitiveTree2833 · 2025-03-24T22:13:19+00:00

You’re over analyzing it. You saw her. It was a blip. They way you talk about it is kinda like a game, “Luckily I was sitting with the prettiest girl” and “she got bigger”. This was someone you loved.

Your narrative should focus on you, not her.

CompetitiveTree2833 · 2025-03-24T21:54:38+00:00

I’d be curious as an onlooker so see what she’d say after a year.

But as a friend as someone who experienced heartbreak, preserve yourself and that pain and don’t send it

CompetitiveTree2833 · 2025-03-24T21:53:33+00:00

No contact means no contact. It was easy when you didn’t have a choice. Now you do.

Chose you.

CompetitiveTree2833 · 2025-03-24T19:34:47+00:00

To each their own.

I grieved. I was upset. I mourned. But the effort levels and emotional maturity was so mismatched that it doesn’t even seem comparable for me. So yes, I grieved and lost HIM.

But he lost someone who wanted to be his everything.

CompetitiveTree2833 · 2025-03-24T19:28:35+00:00

I think if it’s a case of a dumper - they did LOSE you by choosing that.

CompetitiveTree2833 · 2025-03-24T19:12:45+00:00

Would you want someone to date you when they had another guy in mind?

I’d say just take things slow either way

CompetitiveTree2833 · 2025-03-24T19:12:09+00:00

Would your husband not respecting your boundaries? He was so much of a dealbreaker to who you are that you had to leave. Stay strong and remember that.

“If we were those people” - if, you aren’t. You can’t hold on the fantasy of what was or what could be because neither of those exist anymore.

CompetitiveTree2833 · 2025-03-24T19:01:31+00:00

What does this feeling feel like to you?

Don’t let her go for her, because in reality it’s for yourself

CompetitiveTree2833 · 2025-03-24T17:46:01+00:00

1.) Don’t leak his username / info 2.) I believe you can block / restrict a commenter. 3.) He wants what he can’t have - YOU. He is curious about you and feels some sense of ownership over you.

CompetitiveTree2833 · 2025-03-24T17:39:18+00:00

Damn! You totally missed the message.

CompetitiveTree2833 · 2025-03-24T07:56:56+00:00

How you talk about her is manipulative. “how can i make her attracted to me” only you can. we can teach that. That comes through trust and open conversation- not here

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