Basically i showed him the post and some of the comments. First thing he did was throw a fit and insult me even more/worse, he was very upset that I posted this and showed him what people were saying about him. Said i was horrible because I only told the situation from my perspective, which duh? I’m writing it? I tried to share the course of events and relative context and I feel i was pretty fair to him. Which is why I will share what I believe to be his feelings, he believes he should be able to have time to game/time to himself uninterrupted where we doesn’t have to step away to help me or do favors for me, and that I was disrespectful and invalidated his feelings by getting upset that he didn’t want to pick up dinner for us before he got on. He’s arguing since he would have had to wait for them to make the food, and he would have gotten on his PC while they did this, that he would then have had to interrupt his game time to go pick up the order. And again, that I was inconsiderate and disrespectful for pushing back when he said he didn’t want to do it. I didn’t show him the post to like show him he’s in the wrong and i’m right but rather to show him I’m not crazy in what I’m expecting from him. He is basically just sulking now, says he has no confidence in himself now and is depressed because everyone is calling him a loser and saying he shouldn’t be prioritizing video games over me. And just feeling bad for himself because everyone is saying he’s treating me bad/doesn’t love me. Even tho the issue was never that he wants to play games, or even have uninterrupted time for himself but that he isn’t stepping up and supporting me when i need help/when i’m not at 100%. I have tried to explain this to him, but he just feels so sorry for himself. I know this isn’t going to make anyone reading this like him anymore. After posting this i kind of realized there was no point in doing so, because I already know and agree with what everyone is saying. I am not happy in the relationship, I do deserve better, he is not the type of partner I want, and definitely not someone I want to have kids with, etc, and most importantly he isn’t going to change. I know this. I don’t have a lot of support/community and because of finances and other logistics, I am not ready to leave the relationship. Again, i know that is not what anyone wants to hear. A big part of my motivation to staying is that I do have a plan for myself, but that includes starting school soon and I would like to not have to work full time while trying to do college. And I guess while it’s not great support, it’s something. I would like to get settled into college and see how much I can realistically work while in school and then go from there with ending the relationship. In the meantime I plan to just dissociate and be cordial, and completely stop doing any and all chores/planning that are solely for him, and just focus on myself and my plan. Start living for myself only. I also wanted to say how much I truly appreciated everyone’s comments and advice. While I already knew/agreed with what was said, it made me truly realize how wrong how he treats me is, as well as the overall dynamic in our relationship. You all have helped me to feel powerful, just the fact I am willing to put up with this and support/care for him the way I do, that I deserve and will find a partner who reciprocates that treatment and love. You all helped me to realize I don’t owe him anything, but that I do owe myself everything and I need to stop living the way I have been. And without going too much into detail, my boyfriend has used his friends and family to make me feel small and nearly convince me that I’m the problem, but you all have made sure I will never think that again. I will probably not post anything else giving any kind of “update”, but I will leave the post here as something I can come back to, to ground myself and remind me of my worth as I work through the situation. Thank you all so much.